A man's real and deep feelings are surely those which he acts upon when challenged, not those which, mellow-eyed and soft-voiced, he spouts in easy times. Sarah-Patton Boyle More Quotes by Sarah-Patton Boyle More Quotes From Sarah-Patton Boyle Our minorities alone are in a position to know what the fathers of our democracy were talking about. Sarah-Patton Boyle justice talking father Serviceis love in action, love "made flesh"; service is the body, the incarnation of love. Love is the impetus, service the act, and creativity the result with many by-products. Sarah-Patton Boyle creativity body love When we lose love, we lose also our identification with the universe and with eternal values--an identification which alone makesit possible for us to lay our lives on the altar for what we believe. Sarah-Patton Boyle identification love believe To grow is sometimes to hurt, but who would return to smallness? Sarah-Patton Boyle return hurt sometimes The importance of a lost romantic vision should not be underestimated. In such a vision is power as well as joy. In it is meaning.Life is flat, barren, zestless, if one can find one's lost vision nowhere. Sarah-Patton Boyle power loss romantic ... the constructive power of an image is not measured in terms of its truth, but of the love it inspires. Sarah-Patton Boyle truth love inspire ... one of the blind spots of most Negroes is their failure to realize that small overtures from whites have a large significance... I now realize that this feeling inevitably takes possession of one in the bitter struggle for equality. Indeed, I share it. Yet I wonder how we can expect total acceptance to step full grown from the womb of prejudice, with no embryo or infancy or childhood stages. Sarah-Patton Boyle blind-spots acceptance struggle ... in 1950 a very large slice of the white South stood at the crossroads in its attitude toward its colored citizens and [was] psychologically capable of turning either way. Sarah-Patton Boyle color white attitude A mechanism of some kind stands between us and almost every act of our lives. Sarah-Patton Boyle mechanism technology kind ... most Southerners of my parents' era were raised to feel that it wasn't respectable to be rich. We felt that all patriotic Southerners had lost everything in defense of the South, and sufficient time hadn't elapsed for respectable rebuilding of financial security in a war- impoverished region. Sarah-Patton Boyle patriotic parent war ... the structure of our public morality crashed to earth. Above its grave a tombstone read, "Be tolerant--even of evil." Logically the next step would be to say to our commonwealth's criminals, "I disagree that it's all right to rob and murder, but naturally I respect your opinion." Tolerance is only complacence when it makes no distinction between right and wrong. Sarah-Patton Boyle tolerance tombstone evil Two great areas of deafness existed in the South: White Southerners had no ears to hear that which threatened their Dream. And colored Southerners had none to hear that which could reduce their anger. Sarah-Patton Boyle anger dream two I have known no experience more distressing than the discovery that Negroes didn't love me. Unutterable loneliness claimed me. I felt without roots, like a man without a country. Sarah-Patton Boyle loneliness men country If we love-and-serve an ideal we reach backward in time to its inception and forward to its consummation. To grow is sometimes to hurt; but who would return to smallness? Sarah-Patton Boyle return hurt sometimes
