It sends the wrong message. Maybe you're using it as a crutch during a hard month ... you're not going to see changes from that beyond Christmas. Wagner Said More Quotes by Wagner Said More Quotes From Wagner Said It might be they're going to help make cookies, help get gifts ready from Santa for younger siblings, do some volunteer work, whatever it is, think about, if we're giving up one (tradition), how do we get others going that foster the same feeling? Wagner Said top-news