The world of Shirley Jackson is eerie and unforgettable. A.M. Homes More Quotes by A.M. Homes More Quotes From A.M. Homes If you don’t write the book you have to write, everything breaks. A.M. Homes break writing book Books tell you more about their owners than the owners do. A.M. Homes owners book I once jokingly told someone that every book is like a relationship. They're four or five years long - that's not so bad. They're serious. They demand a lot of attention. But I remember thinking that I wanted to have one with someone who's not so crazy and peculiar and demanding. A.M. Homes crazy book thinking I really don't watch enough TV to know about the impact. In my experience as a TV writer, I would say is the exact opposite - it's very constricted, all having to conform to a form. My sense of fiction writing is not to think about rules but to be driven by the characters and their stories. I often ask myself what's at risk here, who needs what, and how are they going to get it. There has to be a reason for the reader to stop living their own life and start reading your book. A.M. Homes reading writing book I think fiction can help us find everything. You know, I think that in fiction you can say things and in a way be truer than you can be in real life and truer than you can be in non-fiction. There's an accuracy to fiction that people don't really talk about - an emotional accuracy. A.M. Homes emotional real thinking The struggle is how to write optimistically when the world we're living in is not inherently optimistic. I love the idea of the family from the most Norman Rockwell version to Norman Bates. Without family, we have very little - it is the most basic social structure. So yes I suppose I wanted to write a hopeful book about the evolution of the family. A.M. Homes struggle writing book Birthday parties make me nervous as hell. They're one of those things where you're forced to be happy. And even if you're totally depressed, you're got to pretend you're glad you were born, regardless of the fact that getting older means you're closer to dying. A.M. Homes getting-older party mean I'm very interested in compassion - compassion for oneself and others. I write about very complicated characters and experiences and try to do it without judging the character or the action. A.M. Homes compassion writing character People should pay more attention. Everyone wants attention, but no one wants to give attention. A.M. Homes attention giving people It's my policy not to review funerals. A.M. Homes reviews policy funeral Sometimes you can do things for others that you can't do for yourself. A.M. Homes can-do sometimes You really can't write well if you're thinking about what the reviewers might say. A.M. Homes writing thinking Every family has a story that it tells itself, that it passes on to the children and grandchildren. 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If I were an anthropologist, I'd say families are at the root of social structures - they shape our identity, our belief systems - and so I find them fascinating. Also, I love the idea that families have narratives that are essentially the family story that is passed along generation to generation - and the rifts start when people question the story. A.M. Homes belief identity people The weird thing about having your birthday on a school day is that by the time you get to be ten, or eleven for sure, no one at school knows it's your birthday anymore. It's not like when you're little and your mom brings cupcakes for the whole class. But even though no one knows, you walk around like it's supposed to be a national holiday. You walk around thinking that people are supposed to be nice to you, like maybe on your birthday you're ten times more breakable than on any other day. Well, it doesn't work that way. It just doesn't. A.M. 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