We substitute, or we rather hide, this fear of real intimacy by a superficial kind of friendliness, which is quite nice, but nevertheless, very shallow. Erich Fromm More Quotes by Erich Fromm More Quotes From Erich Fromm The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity. Erich Fromm inner-peace insecurity business Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. Erich Fromm spiritual courage letting-go Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction. Erich Fromm effort greed needs The fact that millions of people share the same vices does not make these vices virtues, the fact that they share so many errors does not make the errors to be truths, and the fact that millions of people share the same form of mental pathology does not make these people sane. Erich Fromm errors facts people Many psychiatrists and psychologists refuse to entertain the idea that society as a whole may be lacking in sanity. They hold that the problem of mental health in a society is only that of the number of 'unadjusted' individuals, and not of a possible unadjustment of the culture itself. Erich Fromm numbers culture ideas It takes a moment to tell someone you love them, but it takes a lifetime to prove it. Erich Fromm moments love romantic To love somebody is not just a strong feeling - it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. Erich Fromm strong decision feelings Hate is a product of the unfulfilled life. Erich Fromm products hate life If other people do not understand our behavior-so what? Their request that we must only do what they understand is an attempt to dictate to us. If this is being 'asocial' or 'irrational' in their eyes, so be it. Mostly they resent our freedom and our courage to be ourselves. We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them. Erich Fromm eye hurt long Human history began as an act of disobedience, and it is not unlikely that it will be terminated by an act of obedience. At this point in history the capacity to doubt, to criticize and to disobey may be all that stands between a future for mankind and the end of civilization. Erich Fromm doubt may civilization Love is the child of freedom, never that of domination. Erich Fromm love-you love-is children Alienation as we find it in modern society is almost total… Man has created a world of man-made things as it never existed before. He has constructed a complicated social machine to administer the technical machine he built. The more powerful and gigantic the forces are which he unleashes, the more powerless he feels himself as a human being. He is owned by his creations, and has lost ownership of himself. Erich Fromm machines powerful men Optimism is an alienated form of faith, pessimism an alienated form of despair. Erich Fromm pessimism optimism despair Modern man lives under the illusion that he knows what he wants, while he actually wants what he is supposed to want. Erich Fromm illusion want men Respect is not fear and awe; it...[is]the ability to see a person as he is, to be aware of his unique individuality. Respect, thus, implies the absence of exploitation. I want the loved person to grow and unfold for his own sake, and in his own ways, and not for the purpose of serving me. Erich Fromm respect individuality unique Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love. Erich Fromm art-of-loving ability-to-love ability The deepest need of the human being is to overcome our Erich Fromm being-alone loneliness overcoming The lust for power is not rooted in strength but in weakness. Erich Fromm weakness power lust The whole life of the individual is nothing but the process of giving birth to himself; indeed, we should be fully born when we die. Erich Fromm individual birth giving You have to stop in order to change direction. Erich Fromm order
