A woman who doesn't want to have kids is sort of a mystery to people. That's a question they're asked the minute they get married, it's a question they're asked constantly, 'Don't you want to have kids?' And I feel like that's completely unfair. Shonda Rhimes More Quotes by Shonda Rhimes More Quotes From Shonda Rhimes A hashtag is not helping... A hashtag is not a movement. A hashtag does not make you Dr. King. A hashtag does not change anything. It's a hashtag. Shonda Rhimes drs kings doe Everyone always says to me, 'Why aren't there more people of color on television?' I'm like, 'Why don't you ask a bunch of people who aren't putting people of color on television why there aren't more people of color on television?' Shonda Rhimes color inspirational people My parents created a world in which the only barrier to your success is your own imagination. Shonda Rhimes parent imagination world Ive learned this is a very long marriage doing a television show. I like the people that I work with to be people I enjoy, so you want to cast people who are as excited and enthusiastic as you are. Shonda Rhimes long people television I actually like being alone. I spend most evenings reading and taking long baths. Shonda Rhimes like-being-alone reading long I'm fortunate. I've always had medical care. I've always had access. I've never personally had to use a Planned Parenthood. But I have many friends who have and do and did, and I think it's important that that access be there for everyone. Shonda Rhimes care important thinking I think it's important for women to have a means to get health care. I think it's important that women have a place to go to get Pap smears and cancer screenings. And it shouldn't be considered extra. It shouldn't be considered something that can be "cut." It shouldn't be something that's in danger of going away. The idea that we're even thinking about cutting that off because somebody else isn't enjoying it themselves or somebody has extreme opinions about it is worrisome to me. Shonda Rhimes cancer cutting mean Calling a show a 'guilty pleasure' is like saying 'I'm embarrassed to say I watch it but I can't stop.' That's not a compliment. Shonda Rhimes calling watches compliment Nobody ever asks a man how he gets stuff done. Nobody asks a man how he finds balance. Shonda Rhimes balance done men I never, ever pay attention to the ratings. I stopped paying attention to the ratings somewhere around season two or three of Grey's. It's something I have no control over, so I don't even pay attention. Shonda Rhimes three attention two I was 4 and dictating stories into a tape recorder, and my mom typed them up. Shonda Rhimes tape mom stories Yes, it is hard out there. But hard is relative. I come from a middle-class family, my parents are academics. I was born after the Civil Rights movement, I was a toddler during the women's movement, I live in the United States of America, all of which means I am allowed to own my freedom, my rights, my voice and my uterus. Shonda Rhimes rights mean america I want my daughters to see me and know me as a woman who works. I want that example set for them... I am a better mother for it. The woman I am because I get to run Shondaland, because I get write all day, because I get to spend my days making things up, that woman is a better person - and a better mother. Because that woman is happy. That woman is fulfilled. That woman is whole. I wouldn't want them to know the me who didn't get to do this all day long. I wouldn't want them to know the me who wasn't doing. Shonda Rhimes daughter mother running I think it's sad, and weird, and strange that [race in casting] is still a thing. It's 2013. Somebody else needs to get their act together. Shonda Rhimes race together thinking There is no longer one way to consume TV. Some shows you want to watch live, some shows you only discover through streaming, some shows you just feel you need to DVR. Shonda Rhimes want watches needs I cannot keep track and lots of great shows go unnoticed. Shonda Rhimes unnoticed track shows I am terrible with examples. I can never think of them when anybody asks for an example. Shonda Rhimes terrible example thinking I really don't think there's a world in which you can do anything with anybody. Because we're in the world of the White House, I think there are certain things you can do, and larger things that can happen, but I don't think you can do anything. Shonda Rhimes white house thinking No is a powerful word. To me, it’s the single most powerful word in the English language. Said clearly, strongly and with enough frequency and force, it can alter the course of history. Shonda Rhimes But after Season 10, we had some big shifts in front of the camera, behind the camera, it became my goal to have an experience there that I could be happy and proud about, because we had so much turmoil for 10 years. Shonda Rhimes entertainment