Accept yourself. But realize your behaviors can be bad. David D. Burns More Quotes by David D. Burns More Quotes From David D. Burns People who are prone to anxiety are nearly always people-pleasers who fear conflict and negative feelings like anger. When you feel upset, you sweep your problems under the rug because you don't want to upset anyone. You do this so quickly and automatically that you're not even aware you're doing it. David D. Burns you anger fear people