Acceptance does not mean inaction. We may need to respond, strongly at times...From a peaceful center we can respond instead of react. Unconscious reactions create problems. Considered responses bring peace. With a peaceful heart whatever happens can be met with wisdom...Peace is not weak; it is unshakable.

Jack Kornfield

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No amount of outer technology, no amount of computers and biotechnology and nanotechnology is going to stop the continuation of warfare and racism and environmental destruction. What's called for on the Earth at this time is really a change of heart ... the question is really not the future of humanity, but the presence of eternity.

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If you can sit quietly after difficult news; if in financial downturns you remain perfectly calm; if you can see your neighbors travel to fantastic places without a twinge of jealousy; if you can happily eat whatever is put on your plate; you can fall asleep after a day of running around without a drink or a pill; if you can always find contentment just where you are: you are probably a dog.

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The heart is like a garden. It can grow compassion or fear, resentment or love. What seeds will you plant there?

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Peace requires us to surrender our illusions of control. We can love and care for others but we cannot possess our children, lovers, family, or friends. We can assist them, pray for them, and wish them well, yet in the end their happiness and suffering depend on their thoughts and actions, not on our wishes.

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Whatever your difficulties - a devastated heart, financial loss, feeling assaulted by the conflicts around you, or a seemingly hopeless illness - you can always remember that you are free in every moment to set the compass of your heart to your highest intentions. In fact, the two things that you are always free to do - despite your circumstances - are to be present and to be willing to love.

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In the end, just three things matter: How well we have lived How well we have loved How well we have learned to let go

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If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.

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Most of us have spent our lives caught up in plans, expectations, ambitions for the future; in regrets, guilt or shame about the past. To come into the present is to stop the war.

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The present moment is really all that we have. The only place you can really love another person is in the present. Love in the past is a memory. Love in the future is a fantasy. To be really alive, love - or any other experience - must take place in the present.

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The things that matter most in our lives are not fantastic or grand. They are the moments when we touch one another.

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Everything that has a beginning has an ending. Make your peace with that and all will be well.

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The waves do keep coming, so learn to surf.

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We do not have to improve ourselves; we just have to let go of what blocks our heart.

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To live fully is to let go and die with each passing moment, and to be reborn in each new one.

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I used to think that to become free you had to practice like a samurai warrior, but now I understand that you have to practice like a devoted mother of a newborn child. It takes the same energy but has a completely different quality. It's compassion and presence rather than having to defeat the enemy in battle.

Jack Kornfield

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May you know the beauty of your own true nature.

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In deep self acceptance, grows a compassionate understanding.

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Compassion for ourselves gives rise to the power to transform resentment into forgiveness, hatred into friendliness, and fear into respect for all beings.

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Letting go does not mean not caring about things. It means caring about them in a flexible and wise way.

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Train your mind the same way you’d train a puppy: Be patient, be consistent, and have some fun along the way.

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