Amor animi arbitrio sumitu, non ponitur; we choose to love; we do not choose to cease loving. Lauren Groff More Quotes by Lauren Groff More Quotes From Lauren Groff Total intimacy is a myth; that said, a particular kind of loneliness can be both beautiful and fruitful. Lauren Groff myth loneliness said beautiful My childhood was as conventional as you could get. I think I probably created 'Arcadia' with a certain amount of wishful thinking. I would have loved to have more looseness and freedom and community. Lauren Groff you childhood freedom community If there's a black cat that crosses the street in my path, I will turn around and walk 20 minutes out of my way to not cross it. You know how in New York there's a lot of scaffolding? I won't walk under scaffolding or under ladders. I wear things like a baseball player wears things that are supposed to have luck. Lauren Groff walk you black path