Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion; today is special. John Spence More Quotes by John Spence More Quotes From John Spence If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you're fooling yourself. That's like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn't eat him. John Spence life-changingworldthinking At the end of the day - the long day of your life - as people stand around your grave no one will talk about how big your house was, or how many cars you owned, or your boat or plane... they will only talk about ONE thing and ONE thing ONLY: LOVE! How much you loved them and how much they loved you. So the goal then is to live a life of love. That is all. John Spence cargoalthinking Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come. John Spence encouraginglife-changinguplifting Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It's about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can. John Spence love-issexthinking Making one person smile can change the world - maybe not the whole world, but their world. John Spence personsworldthinking Be happy. Be yourself. If others don't like it, then let them be. Happiness is a choice. Life isn't about pleasing everybody. John Spence being-yourselflife-changingthinking You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are now. John Spence life-changingwantthinking Happiness is not determined by what's happening around you, but rather what's happening inside you. Most people depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it always comes from within. John Spence life-changingpeoplethinking Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly. John Spence distanceneedsthinking People are more what they hide than what they show. John Spence showspeoplethinking The minute you stop expecting life to be simple, fair and easy... it becomes simple, fair and easy. John Spence simpleeasythinking Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you. It takes someone really special to stay in your life and show how much they love you. John Spence speciallove-youthinking We are the producers of our own thinking. Thought is not something that happens to us, but something that we do to ourselves. John Spence producershappensthinking Sometimes people don't notice the things others do for them until they stop doing them. John Spence life-changingpeoplethinking When you choose to see the good in others, you end up finding the good in yourself. John Spence findingsendsthinking If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay. John Spence spaceheartthinking While you're busy looking for the perfect person, you'll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy. John Spence imperfect-personlife-changingthinking Someone else doesn't have to be wrong for you to be right. John Spence thinking Don't think of cost. Think of value. John Spence creating-valuelife-changingthinking Love and appreciate your parents. We are often so busy growing up; we forget they are also growing old. John Spence growing-upappreciatethinking