Do not humiliate, disrespect or embarrass; always speak with a soft tongue when holding your ground. To be loud, rude and obnoxious will negate the argument and advantage. And truth is always mandatory.

RJ Intindola

Your morality is determined by your conscience and mine is determined by my conscience.

Avoid constantly trying to adapt to situations, people, and other circumstances that have no value to your future. The phenomenon of always attempting to please and alter behavior is more likely to be unsuccessful then to enhance your life. Adapt by continuing to learn and improve your knowledge

Be careful not to fall in love with the fantasy you imagined instead of what’s standing before you.

Fake people can be silenced with truth.

For the most part, people live their normal lives. Except when at parties, in a group or away from home, then a different person emerges.

How many times have we encountered a person that states, “can I ask a question,” and proceeds to ask the question before you can respond. In these cases, they’ve given us a choice and then take it away. What they’re really doing here, is making a statement and not asking you to decide.

If you ask for advice, listen, instead of interrupting and debating why it’s wrong.

If your character is strong, you’ll find a way to succeed and if it’s week, you’ll find an excuse to fail.

If you’re the problem, then moving to a new town to start a new life is not going to work.

In the epic battle between the brain and the heart, the heart usually wins.

Life is a test, make sure you study for it.

Never and Always Never take advantage of someone who loves you Never avoid someone who needs you Never betray anyone who has trust in you Never forget the people that always remember you Never speak ill of a person who is not present Never support something you know is wrong or unethical Always speak to your parents on their birthday and anniversary Always defend those who cannot defend themselves Always forgive those you love who have made mistakes Always give something to those less fortunate than you Always remember to look back at those who helped you succeed Always call your parents and siblings on New Year’s Eve. R.J. Intindola- 1985

No one is coming to save you. You’re the only one left for this assignment.

People who create change, change the future for others. Therefore, if you remain idle, the future will control how you change.

She taught me that without trust, love could never exist.

Sometimes defining friendship can be simple. If your heart still aches after someone has passed, then you were a true friend. They may have physically left this world, but they still walk among us in our hearts.

Sometimes our heart goes rogue and makes decisions without even telling us or letting us know in advance.

When you have a choice between quantity or quality, always choose quality; except when it comes to money.

Love is often described as a fruit you can just reach out with your hand and pluck. However, one should beware, that although glowing in color, the fruit is often tainted or rotten.

People who don’t keep promises, can’t be trusted.