For me, marriage is about love, not paperwork. I've never been the kid who dreamed of the big white dress, the long veil, the fancy diamond ring. Crystal Bowersox More Quotes by Crystal Bowersox More Quotes From Crystal Bowersox I had what you could call a chaotic childhood. My parents divorced when I was 2; I went back and forth between my mom's and dad's houses for years. But, you know, my parents tried to do the right thing. As crazy as everything was, and as much fighting and everything, there was always a feeling of support from them. Crystal Bowersox parents you childhood crazy I know that, as a bisexual, sometimes people who are gay or lesbian look down upon the bisexual community as well and assume that people who are bisexual just don't know what they want or are just playing both sides of the fence, and that's not the case, either. Crystal Bowersox look community sometimes people I did grow up poor. My mom managed to get a job as a custodian at our church, and it was really just a favor for her, and my dad's an electrician - just a blue-collar family, and the house was usually falling apart. Crystal Bowersox job dad family mom I've been bisexual for as long as I can remember. I remember being made fun of in junior high for that. It was something that was shameful, and it really shouldn't be. Crystal Bowersox i-can fun remember long I knew from the time I was 6 or 7 that music was something I had to do. Crystal Bowersox knew something music time Growing up, my parents did everything they knew how to do to support me. My dad was always kinda my roadie; he drove me from gig to gig. But I got my own gigs. I was this 12-year-old kid, shuffling business cards, calling people, telling them I wanted to play. Crystal Bowersox parents me business people When I found out I was pregnant, I was 22. It was really scary because I was working the music thing, and with a kid coming, you just can't live that life with a child. Crystal Bowersox child you music life I went into the 'Idol' audition with no expectations; that's just the kind of person I am. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't hurt so badly, you know? But once I made it past the first round, and the second, and third - I started to realize, 'Maybe my goals and dreams really are attainable.' Crystal Bowersox goals i-am dreams you I don't think anyone's sexuality needs to be a public issue other than to give others the confidence to love themselves wholeheartedly and to be their true, authentic self without any shame. Crystal Bowersox think confidence self love I'm not sure why there's this anger in the youth, but we need to talk about it. Kids need to get help if they need help, and bullies need to be helped as well. Crystal Bowersox help need youth anger When you're a kid, you might be picked on for your differences. When you're an adult, employers, colleges, friends - people look for differences when you're adult, and that's what makes you shine and stand out. Crystal Bowersox shine look you people My music is pretty versatile; I have a lot of genres and styles. I don't think I should be pigeonholed into one thing. So we'll see where my career goes. Crystal Bowersox career see think music I have a lot of love and respect for Melissa Etheridge. I love Joe Cocker, Ray LaMontagne, Feist. Crystal Bowersox lot i-love respect love I've known who I am as an artist for a long time; 'Idol' has shown me what I'm capable of. I know it's all possible for me now. I can go in any direction I want. I'm forever grateful to them. Crystal Bowersox i-am me grateful time Acting was my first love before music. Crystal Bowersox first-love music acting love Acting isn't necessarily pretending. It's storytelling. It's giving someone your perspective on something. Crystal Bowersox someone pretending perspective giving You have to learn to draw the same emotion you had when you wrote a song every time you perform it. Acting is the same way: You have to find those emotions and bring them to the surface, and then put them back when you're done. Crystal Bowersox you time song way I hope that country music embraces me because I grew up on it and have a love for the music. Crystal Bowersox me music hope love Writing for me is definitely a form of ventilation - a way for me to cope and deal with emotions. I think it is for any writer. Crystal Bowersox emotions think me way Everything is pre-taped these days, but I'm a believer in, 'If you can't do it live, don't do it.' Crystal Bowersox days live everything you
