Given my PTSD and my understanding of trauma, it's very likely that my thinking would not necessarily be changing at this time had it not been for the #MeToo movement -- not only because of the new lens it has provided, but also because of how it has offered new avenues toward the safety that comes with solidarity.

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I was Patient Zero. The first person to have their reputation completely destroyed worldwide via the Internet.

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I voted Republican this year; the Democrats left a bad taste in my mouth.

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I, myself, deeply regret what happened between me and President Clinton. Let me say it again: I. Myself. Deeply. Regret. What. Happened.

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I've learned not to put things in my mouth that are bad for me.

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Let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention.

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Sure, my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship. Any 'abuse' came in the aftermath, when I was made a scapegoat in order to protect his powerful position.

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Overnight, I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one. I was Patient Zero.

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It’s time to burn the beret and bury the blue dress.

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Some people are born great and some have greatness thrust upon them

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I try to make very careful decisions about what I choose to do, and it's - I know that unfortunately one of the misperceptions about me, I think, is that I'm sort of a moth to the limelight.

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We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression. We all want to be heard, but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention

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The more shame, the more clicks. The more clicks, the more advertising dollars.

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People who know Clinton knew the guy has a real problem keeping his hands off women.

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Try and have neutral compassion toward the perpetrator. Step outside the sting of the incident and realize that this person is trying to erase their own inadequacy or unhappiness by transferring it to you. It won't make the incident go away, but it's one thing you can do to reduce the pain.

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I did though at least expect him to correct the false statements he made when he was trying to protect the Presidency. Instead, he talked about it as though I had laid it all out there for the taking. I was the buffet and he just couldn't resist the dessert.

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I know I will never have an affair with a married man again.

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You can insist on a different end to the story.

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Changing behaviours begins with evolving beliefs.

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I mean, there was a portion, of course, that I think, when I look back now, that there was a portion of what attracted me must have been the awe of him being a powerful man in this environment, not to take away from who he is as a real person.

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Public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry.

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