How seriously can I take myself? I'm just one of six billion people, right? Kelly Corrigan More Quotes by Kelly Corrigan More Quotes From Kelly Corrigan You have to speak your dream out loud. Kelly Corrigan change dream motivational And it occurs to me that maybe the reason my mother was so exhausted all the time wasn’t because she was doing so much but because she was feeling so much. Kelly Corrigan exhausted mother feelings This tug-of-war often obscures what's also happening between us. I am your mother, the first mile of your road. Me and all my obvious and hidden limitations. That means that in addition to possibly wrecking you, I have the chance to give to you what was given to me: a decent childhood, more good memories than bad, some values, a sense of tribe, a run at happiness. You can't imagine how seriously I take that - even as I fail you. Mothering you is the first thing of consequence that I have ever done. Kelly Corrigan mother running memories If John Lennon was right that life is what happens when you're making other plans, parenthood is what happens when everything is flipped over and spilling everywhere and you can't find a towel or a sponge or your "inside" voice. Kelly Corrigan towels parenthood voice He defined me first, as parents do. Those early characterizations can become the shimmering self-image we embrace or the limited, stifling perception we rail against for a lifetime. Kelly Corrigan perception parent self Even when all the paperwork-a marriage license, a notarized deed, two birth certificates, and seven years of tax returns-clearly indicates you're an adult, but all the same, there you are, clutching the phone and thanking God that you're still somebody's daughter. Kelly Corrigan phones daughter years My readers often say to me, 'If we lived next door to each other, we'd be best friends.' That is precisely what I wanted to say to smart, funny, self-effacing Ellen McCarthy after I finished reading The Real Thing. I loved every lesson laid out in a book that wouldn't dare to call itself a field guide to marriage but amounts to as much on every page. This is a deeply useful little book. Kelly Corrigan smart real book Raising people is not some lark. It's serious work with serious repercussions. It's air-traffic control. You can't step out for a minute; you can barely pause to scratch your ankle. Kelly Corrigan larks air people We'll bury our mothers and fathers - shuttling our children off for sleepovers, jumping on red-eyes, telling eachother stories that hurt to hear, about gasping, agonal breaths, hospice nurses, scars and bruises and scabs, and how skin papers shortly after a person passes. We will nod in agreement that it is as much an honor to witness a person leave this world as it is to watch a person come into it. Kelly Corrigan hurt mother children It is one thing to be a man's wife - quite another to be the mother of his children. In fact, once you become a mother, being a wife seems like a game you once played or a self-help book you were overly impressed with as a teenager that on second reading is puffy with common ideas. This was one of the many things I had learned since crossing over into the middle place - that sliver of time when childhood and parenthood overlap. Kelly Corrigan teenager mother children Appreciation is the purest,strongest form of love. It is the outward-bound kind of love that asks for nothing and gives everything. Kelly Corrigan kind appreciation giving That to fly requires chaotic, sometimes even violent passages--becomes a metaphor for all of life's most meaningful endeavors. Kelly Corrigan metaphor sometimes meaningful The mother is the most essential piece on the board, the one you must protect. Only she has the range. Only she can move in multiple directions. Once she's gone, it's a whole different game. Kelly Corrigan mother games moving I am an average mother in almost every way, so yes, much to my regret, I do yell at my children. Kelly Corrigan regret mother children I didn't know adults could be changed. I thought they were finished pieces, baked through and kiln dried. Kelly Corrigan changed pieces adults We're never ready for the things that happen. When the big stuff happens, we're always looking in the other direction. Kelly Corrigan stuff-happens ready bigs I envy my dad and his faith. I envy all people who have someone to beseech, who know where they're going, who sleep under the fluffy white comforter of belief. Kelly Corrigan dad white sleep Growing up, I saw my mother cry exactly once. The morning of her brother's funeral. One long tear ran down her cheek through her make up until she caught it near her mouth and patted it dry with a tissue she pulled from inside her sleeve. Kelly Corrigan brother mother morning long It's clear to you immediately that you can have anything you want when you have cancer. Kelly Corrigan anything you cancer want Shortly before I turned 37 and my older daughter turned 3, I was diagnosed with breast cancer: stage III of IV. Kelly Corrigan breast-cancer cancer stage daughter
