I can't say that fantasy instead of the 3D world is fine or good, but I know in my own life I have certain people I've kind of fixated upon to the point of pure fantasy. Then there's such a dilemma when here they are, and they're getting ever less and less like the way the fantasy has them.

Jane Alison

Categorized in : World Way People

I do some messing around with things, not necessarily about me but about place and people and the things around.

people

I grew up flying over oceans and moving and sailing. by Jane Alison

I grew up flying over oceans and moving and sailing.

flying ocean moving

I was born in Australia and grew up in the foreign services. I had this kind of trans-Pacific life. I think I was always sort of oriented towards here's Australia and here's America and here's the Pacific.

australia america thinking

There's a lot of water in everything I've ever written. There's a... by Jane Alison

There's a lot of water in everything I've ever written. There's always oceans and pools.

pool ocean water

When you get immersed in whatever you're writing, the world does suddenly get so filtered through what you're writing. And then of course what you're writing then filters the world right back.

filters doe writing

Early in the phase of being in a female body, there's all this desire that comes at you, a lot of it hostile, a lot of it dangerous, a lot of it ruinous.

phases female desire

Teaching writing puts you on the point of a pin in terms of what... by Jane Alison

Teaching writing puts you on the point of a pin in terms of what you want your own writing to be.

teaching want writing

That was one of the problems with the Narcissus figure. Here is a face looking at a face, and the problem is the image of the thing is never actually the thing. You try and grab it and it's not there. It's water. It disappears.

faces trying water

There's a quote that I learned in college a million years ago. "Happy, thought I, is the man who can, in one and the same embrace, hold both his love and the object of his love." Holding the feeling that you have and all the images that you've got and all the fantasies and romantic associations while also holding the actual core person that's been saddled with all of this.

college men years

You can sometimes find something good on the other side of doing... by Jane Alison

You can sometimes find something good on the other side of doing something very, very painful.

painful sides sometimes

I've always wanted to figure out how to do a walking story. I'd never figured out how to do one and have it work or be interesting or have anything that it's about.

figures stories interesting

I don't think you can have an imagination without having fantasy, and you can't have that rich a life without an imagination.

fantasy imagination thinking

In order to have a real life of any romance, there has to be a le... by Jane Alison

In order to have a real life of any romance, there has to be a level of fantasy.

romance real order

When you're waiting for a bus, the thing to do is smoke a cigaret... by Jane Alison

When you're waiting for a bus, the thing to do is smoke a cigarette.

bus cigarette waiting

I wouldn't underestimate the power of writing a letter. by Jane Alison

I wouldn't underestimate the power of writing a letter.

underestimate letters writing

I know that I was able to find my way out of most of my feelings... by Jane Alison

I know that I was able to find my way out of most of my feelings by writing.

able feelings writing

I think sometimes to still be angry is appropriate, but you want... by Jane Alison

I think sometimes to still be angry is appropriate, but you want to be able to live with it.

able want thinking

Sometimes there isn't a way to hug and make everything better. by Jane Alison

Sometimes there isn't a way to hug and make everything better.

hug sometimes way

I sometimes think that we expect too much resolution in this worl... by Jane Alison

I sometimes think that we expect too much resolution in this world.

too-much world thinking

That's what perfect means. You're finished. by Jane Alison

That's what perfect means. You're finished.

finished perfect mean