I did a guest episode of 'Royal Pains,' and then right after that, 'Supergirl' happened, and I was like, 'How did I get here?' Every day, I walk on set, and I'm waiting for someone to be like, 'Ma'am, you can't be here.' Nicole Maines More Quotes by Nicole Maines More Quotes From Nicole Maines This entire issue of transgender people posing a kind of threat to cisgender women in bathrooms is made up. We are just like everybody else - we go into the bathroom, we keep our heads down, we don't look at anybody. Nicole Maines look posing women people I hope I can help convince people there that being transgender is not a big deal and that we are just average people trying to go to school, work, and live good lives. Nicole Maines good hope work people It's OK not to understand the whole trans thing. That's alright. My dad didn't understand it. I still don't know everything. What's important is you sort of educate yourself on your own time, but you have to respect it on everyone else's time. Because no one should have to wait for equality. Nicole Maines yourself you respect time The most inspirational person in my life has been my mother. Nicole Maines my-life mother inspirational life Having trans people play trans roles show that we are valid in our identities, and we exist. Nicole Maines show exist play people Gender is something that occurs in the mind, and sex is something that occurs, you know, everywhere else on the body. And whether or not those two things happen to align - well, if they do, great. If they don't, also great. Nicole Maines great you gender mind I think it is necessary to educate folks on trans issues and to make them aware of trans identities and normalise it, because it is normal. But when you're shielded from something, and it's actively censored, it takes a negative connotation. Nicole Maines something think you negative Cisgender actors don't take trans roles out of malice. I think it's just failure to realize the context behind having cisgender people play transgender characters because we don't see the same issue with sexuality. Nicole Maines think transgender failure people My father grew up very conservative, and he really had set expectations for what boys and girls were supposed to be like. So when I came out to him, that did not fit into his plan of what raising twin boys was going to be like. Nicole Maines plan like expectations father We tried our best to work with the school and with the other families in the school system, and we did a gradual transition. I started transitioning when I was in first grade, and every year we kind of tacked a new thing on to it. Nicole Maines new best work school I always loved theater, growing up, and I was always like, 'Wow, it would be so fun to be an actor.' But my next thought was, like, 'I'm from Nowhere, Maine.' You know, no one's from Maine! Nicole Maines loved thought you fun I know from first-hand experience that separating transgender students from their peers can cause many to leave school, hide who they are, or even do the unthinkable. Nicole Maines hide transgender experience school For a number of years at my public elementary school in rural Maine, I was treated like all the other girls in school. That changed in September 2007 when a male classmate, set on a path by his grandfather, followed me into the girls' restroom. The end result was that I had to use the school's staff bathroom - just me, no one else. Nicole Maines end me path school I am transgender. I knew that I was for as long as I can remember. Nicole Maines i-am transgender remember long Now that we've seen broader representation of trans identities, I think it's safer to explore the fault in these trans characters and make them entirely human and three dimensional. Nicole Maines fault human think three Historically, we have seen cis men play trans women and vice versa. That casting breaks through the fourth wall, and it gives people the message that trans people are being played by cis men in real life, which is where we get this idea of men in dresses. Nicole Maines women men life people I think kids need to watch 'Supergirl' for Nia, because there are more and more trans people coming out younger and younger. Nicole Maines need more think people I think accurately presenting a trans character means not presenting them as perfect - I think there's been a pressure to do this with trans characters. They can have no flaws because they must represent the entire trans community. Nicole Maines think community pressure character When we have trans actors play trans characters, people can look onscreen and say, 'OK, this is what trans is.' Nicole Maines say look play people What I'm really excited for is to see the evolution of trans characters and see more diverse stories be told, so that every time we're on screen, we're not really playing the part of educator and having to explain the experience to the audience, because it will have already been normalized. Nicole Maines will see experience time
