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Debra Winger theatre girl thinking You've got the whole civil rights movements emanating from the south, you've got the music that came out of the south that is the core of our current music, so for me that thinking comes out of having Dukes of Hazzard thrown in your face: that the south is a bunch of twangy people that I can't understand. So this is, hopefully, part of the movement to restore the south to its proper and rightful place in our nation... which is huge and pervasive. It's not about Texas - I'm not saying Texas doesn't have it's own unique history - but the south has this at its core. Debra Winger unique people thinking It's not necessarily that having an affair you get something from the other person that you're not getting from your partner, it's that you created a situation for yourself in which you're unexpressed and so maybe you feel another person allows you to express yourself. 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Debra Winger bad-acting ultimate acting I tend to wear outfits that match the walls. Debra Winger outfits wall fashion People who make lots of money at what they do should just shut up about it. Debra Winger shut-up should people An actress in a film starts every day with an hour and a half in front of a mirror, with hair and make-up and costumes. Debra Winger mirrors half hair I started out in stand-up, so it's very satisfying to make people laugh, but it usually means at your own expense. Debra Winger laughing mean people I do not need a lot of money to be happy. Debra Winger materialistic-world lots-of-money needs
