I know how I was born and I know that I have no choice. I know it may not show on the color of my skin, but I know it's in my heart and in my soul. Sara Quin More Quotes by Sara Quin More Quotes From Sara Quin I don't feel anti-love. I feel suspicious of love, and I feel suspicious of what it means to be in love. And I also feel suspicious of what it means to feel pretend love for someone. Sara Quin anti-love feels mean I don't think people understand how stressful it is to explain what's going on in your head when you don't even understand it yourself. Sara Quin stressful people thinking I live my life in a way that I feel completely comfortable with. I don't struggle with who I am, who I date, who I love, what I say or what I stand for, not just sexuality but everything. Sara Quin who-i-am struggle way I hate being so emotionally slutty. I need to stop loving everyone I have a long conversation with. Sara Quin emotional hate love That’s the thing about success and happiness. Every time I fall in love I become absolutely, pathologically obsessed. The moment that you have what you want, and you’re not totally ready for it, you become obsessed with the idea that you don’t deserve it. Sara Quin falling-in-love want ideas I’ve always been a sort of self-imposed outsider, not a geeky outsider or a snobby outsider but, I just have a natural desire to live on the fringe. I’m not like a weirdo with a trench-coat but I just prefer to be alone or minimally surrounded by people. Sara Quin self desire people Me being in love with a girl and wanting her to be with me, doing what I need to do to make her stay with me; it affects no one, yet it’s terrifying to people and they think you’re a monster. Sara Quin being-in-love girl thinking Although we are Canadian, we have both vowed to remain unmarriad in solidarity with the millions who don't have the same rights as us around the world. Sara Quin lgbt rights world There's homophobia in every corner and pocket of this world but at the core you just love someone and want to make mixed tapes for them. Sara Quin pockets want world I didn't know someone could cry that much, I thought the tears would run out. They don't. Sara Quin cry tears running This next song is about when you get your heart broken and you try your best to glue it back together and you wake up one morning and you're so happy because you realize, Oh my God, the tape's holding! Sara Quin heart song morning Yes here I am doing what I do best; and that's taking a selfie. People make fun of me but the reality is if I didn't take them you would never see me as I want to be seen. I'm a difficult subject and my greatest fear is dying and someone finding my phone and the hundreds upon hundreds of selfies. Sara Quin phones fun reality If I wasn't in a monogamous gay relationship I would have sex with all of you Sara Quin gay-relationship gay sex Sometimes, what probably makes writing songs really easy is that I've generally been attracted to situations that aren't always the healthiest. Sara Quin writing song sometimes Sometimes I worry I'm not going to be the best parent because if my baby gets a skin fungus I might sell him at a garage sale. Sara Quin parent worry baby My dad used to open up photo albums and stuff and you'd have to tell a story about the picture but you couldn't tell the truth so you had to make up a story about whatever you were looking at. He really taught us how to lie. Sara Quin taught-us dad lying I think that bad drama in a relationship has nothing to do with the individuals, it just really has to do with the dynamic that those individuals create. Sara Quin individual drama thinking I have a tendency, not that anyone I've ever dated I thought wasn't a good person, but sometimes you're not always a good match. Sara Quin tendencies good-person sometimes I've been having a lot of dance parties alone in my apartment while learning to cook. Part of my quest to be an attractive single is to learn how to cook and sew and get a license. Sara Quin quests single party I don't jump in real life, why would I jump in a photo? Sara Quin real-life real