I'm not afraid to say I'm very comfortable with who I am and I love who I love. Jessie J More Quotes by Jessie J More Quotes From Jessie J Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising, Just be true to who you are Jessie J bullying tears mean I love cleaning, weird but true. It really relaxes me. Jessie J cleaning relax When I turned 25, something changed in me. I see children in my future 100%. Soon. I started thinking I want my kids to look back and say, 'Wasn't Mummy amazing?' I've really started thinking about what I'm leaving for them. Jessie J kids children thinking It's okay not to be okay... Sometimes it's hard, to follow your heart but tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising, there's nothing wrong with who you are. Jessie J tears heart mean I am a dork in disguise; I love doing stupid stuff. Jessie J dork stupid stuff I want young people to know that they can belong - whatever your culture, your religion, your sexuality - that you can live life how you want to live it and feel comfortable how you are. Jessie J life culture people I am a very honest person, and I can only say there are moments in my life where I really did think I was being me in the sense of my morals and beliefs and the way I acted. But when I look back at certain things that I wore and my hair and make-up, I was like, 'Whoa! That wasn't me!' But I didn't know it back then. Jessie J hair looks thinking I think the best way to have confidence is not to allow everyone else's insecurities to be your own. Jessie J insecurity way thinking Being bullied means you’re special and that’s what I want all kids to know. Jessie J special mean kids I used to live in a gap jumper, tracksuit bottoms and a fake flower in my hair. Shocking. Jessie J fake flower hair I think confidence is the sexiest thing to have. Jessie J sexiest thinking The message I want to give my fans is, always have a way to pull yourself out of the dark place. Don't sit and cry about it. Have your moment, and then get over it. Jessie J fans dark giving During my stage shows, I am so energetic. It's constant! I just don't stand still. I actually got given a mic stand from my team to say 'Just calm down. Stand still for at least two songs.' But now I just pick it up and walk around with it. Jessie J team song two We're flying free like birds in the sky, because we're ALIVE. Jessie J flying sky bird I'm not a model, I'm an artist. In one of my videos, I'm doing this shot of me with no make-up on where I've just woken up, and I don't think a lot of people would be comfortable enough to do that. But that's the way I look. This is who I am. Let's enjoy it. Let's just live life to the full while we're all here. Jessie J artist life thinking I want it to be less about sexuality and more about being comfortable in who you fall in love with. If I meet someone and I like them, I don’t care if they’re a boy or a girl. You should never, ever apologize for anything that makes you happy. Jessie J falling-in-love girl boys I always wanted to be an artist; being a songwriter for myself was always a must but being a songwriter for others has been a bonus. Jessie J bonus artist wanted Children used to get bullied at school. Now they go home and that's where the problem starts - because they sit on their phones all night, thinking about who's 'liked' a photo of them, who hates them, who loves them. They don't know what's real and what's not, editing their lives constantly to fit other people's views. Jessie J hate real children If you don't believe in yourself nobody else will believe in you. Jessie J believe-in-yourself ifs believe I wasn't always someone who was talented. It was more that I was loud and loved a challenge. Jessie J loud challenges