I myself have perceived women's actions as more aggressive than I would have in men because I too am walking around with my own biases. The way to fight them is to become conscious of them. Siri Hustvedt More Quotes by Siri Hustvedt More Quotes From Siri Hustvedt Every painting is always two paintings: The one you see, and the one you remember. Siri Hustvedt paintingremembertwo A book is a collaboration between the one who reads and what is read and, at its best, that coming together is a love story like any other. Siri Hustvedt collaborationtogetherbook There is no future without a past, because what is to be cannot be imagined except as a form of repetition. Siri Hustvedt formreflectionpast Our memory fragments don't have any coherence until they're imagined in words. Time is a property of language, of syntax, and tense. Siri Hustvedt coherencesyntaxmemories Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting. Siri Hustvedt emotionalpainhurt That is the strangeness of language: it crosses the boundaries of the body, is at once inside and outside, and it sometimes happens that we don't notice the threshold has been crossed. Siri Hustvedt languagebodysometimes The faculty of memory cannot be separated from the imagination. They go hand in hand. To one degree or another, we all invent our personal pasts. And for most of us those pasts are built from emotionally colored memories. Siri Hustvedt memorieshandspast Dreams are stories made by and for the dreamer, and each dreamer has his own folds to open and knots to untie. Siri Hustvedt storiesmadedream I've always thought of wholeness and integration as necessary myths. We're gragmented beings who cement ourselves together, but there are always cracks. Living with the cracks is part of being, well, reasonably healthy. Siri Hustvedt crackshealthytogether The truth is that personality inevitably bleeds into all forms of our intellectual life. We all extrapolate from our own lives in order to understand the world. Siri Hustvedt intellectualpersonalityorder Memory offers up its gifts only when jogged by something in the present. It isn't a storehouse of fixed images and words, but a dynamic associative network in the brain that is never quiet and is subject to revision each time we retrieve an old picture or old words. Siri Hustvedt revisionbrainmemories under our love making I felt a bleakness that couldnt be dispelled. The sadness was in both of us, and I think we pitied ourselves that night, as if we were other people looking down on the couple who lay together on the bed Siri Hustvedt sadnesscouplenight Reading is a private pursuit; one that takes place behind closed doors. Siri Hustvedt imbibingreadingdoors Reading is perception as translation. The inert signs of an alphabet become living meanings in the mind. Siri Hustvedt perceptionreadingmind There is no reason we should expect young children to enter the nocturnal darkness of sleep and dreams without help. Siri Hustvedt dreamsleepchildren No matter how brilliant or accomplished they are, there is something emasculating for men in being pitted against a woman. It is even more true in creative fields already considered to be "squishy" and feminine, and it's a big problem because great women have been left off the record. Siri Hustvedt creativemattermen Human beings are repetitive animals. All meaning is generated through repetition. Siri Hustvedt repetitionhumansanimal I remember thinking how easy it is to speak in clichés, to steal a line from pulp fiction and let it fall. We can only hover around the inexpressible with our words anyway, and there is comfort in saying what we have heard before. Siri Hustvedt comfortfallthinking I think because mothers usually are the people who take care of us when we're little, and when we're little those mothers are omnipotent, perhaps men even more than women don't like to think about that dependency. That dependency is horror. Siri Hustvedt mothermenthinking Every sickness has an alien quality, a feeling of invasion and loss of control that is evident in the language we use about it. Siri Hustvedt qualitylossfeelings
