‘I see where you are coming from,’ is the best phrase to use to resolve an argument because it does two things: It demonstrates you are listening to the other person and it validates their perspective. Rebecca Hendrix More Quotes by Rebecca Hendrix More Quotes From Rebecca Hendrix Most of the time it is holding on too tight to our perspective of things that keeps us in tension with another, if we are open to another's perspective then it becomes a discussion, not an argument. Rebecca Hendrix latest-headlines