I suspected, however, that I wasn't homesick for anything I would find at home when I returned. The longing was for what I wouldn't find: the past and all the people and places there were lost to me. Alice Steinbach More Quotes by Alice Steinbach More Quotes From Alice Steinbach A letter is always better than a phone call. People write things in letters they would never say in person. They permit themselves to write down feelings and observations using emotional syntax far more intimate and powerful than speech will allow. Alice Steinbach emotional powerful writing It is one of the strongest bonds, I think, that can spring up between people: sharing a passion for certain books and their authors. Alice Steinbach passion spring book Mother loved the wind. When I was growing up, she would recite this poem to me. Who has seen the wind? Neither you nor I, But when the trees bow down their heads, The wind is passing by. So it is with God. Alice Steinbach growing-up mother love I suppose that, after the passion of love, water rights have caused more trouble than anything else to the human species. Alice Steinbach passion rights water The fun-seekers, I noted, were spontaneous and flexible. They approached each day and each situation with a willingness to ride whatever wave came along, just for the experience of it. The complainers, on the other hand, would only catch a wave if it was exactly to their liking. Anything else drew loud protestations about how it was not what they expected. Alice Steinbach each-day fun hands What is the purpose of memory? Is it a trick to make sure we don't forget who we are by reminding us of who we were? Alice Steinbach who-we-are purpose memories I'm a woman in search on an adventure Alice Steinbach adventure Women, I learned, adapted. Alice Steinbach husband brother father Freedom has its dangers as well as its joys. And the sooner we learn to get up after a fall, the better off we'll be. Alice Steinbach get-up joy fall Women would be better off when they no longer needed men more than they needed their own independent identities...How long a time it took me after my divorce to understand that being alone is not the same as being lonely. Alice Steinbach divorce independent lonely And who's to say that just because something lasts only a short time, it has little value? Alice Steinbach short-time lasts littles Going back to school is like going back in time. Immediately, for better or for worse, you must give up a little piece of your autonomy in order to become part of the group. And every group, of course, has its hierarchies and rules- spoken and unspoken. It is like learning to live once again in a family- which, of course, is the setting where all learning begins. Alice Steinbach giving-up order school