I think the key for any kind of artist - and this transcends music - is a certain degree of authenticity and sincerity. K. Flay More Quotes by K. Flay More Quotes From K. Flay When I was growing up, I wasn't in bands, and had really no intention of ever doing music. I went out to California for college, and kind of on a whim started making music really as a joke, and over the course of the next five years started playing a lot of shows, and music became this really integral part of my identity. K. Flay growing-up music college identity I think, initially, working on your own is really great because it allows you to just be really free and not worry about how things are perceived or if people are going to think you're an idiot. And once that becomes ingrained, at least for me, I think I'll feel really comfortable to work with other people and still feel that same freedom. K. Flay me you freedom work I think, no matter what, when you're writing songs, most people write about the extremes of their experiences. K. Flay think you matter people The more I talk to people who are at a place I'd like to be at, whether its music or writing, or being a doctor or entrepreneur, sometimes you get lucky, and right away something happens. But for most people, the common denominator of success is just working really hard. K. Flay you music success people Even successful musicians have had periods where people say they suck and no one likes them, even after they've had periods of great success. So I think it's like you just gotta do you and try to stay motivated. Until, you know, you decide to stay home and make spaghetti all day. K. Flay day you home success