I've always loved the '40s romantic comedies and the idea of those mistaken identities and lovers' misunderstandings. Pearl Cleage More Quotes by Pearl Cleage More Quotes From Pearl Cleage ...no woman can love a weak man hard enough to make him strong. Pearl Cleage being-strong weak-man men We danced too wild, and we sang too long, and we hugged too hard, and we kissed too sweet, and howled just as loud as we wanted to howl, because by now we were all old enough to know that what looks like crazy on an ordinary day looks a lot like love if you catch it in the moonlight. Pearl Cleage ordinary-days crazy sweet Loneliness is black coffee and late-night television; solitude is herb tea and soft music. Solitude, quality solitude, is an assertion of self-worth, because only in the stillness can we hear the truth of our own unique voices. Pearl Cleage coffee self-worth loneliness It is a dangerous time to be a black woman in America. It’s a time when we are not safe in the streets or at home or at school or at work and nobody seems to be able to do anything about it. Nobody. Not us. Not our mommas. Not the police. Not the people we elected to look out for our interests. Nobody. We’re just out here. (p.53) Pearl Cleage home america school Discomfort is always a necessary part of enlightenment. Pearl Cleage discomfort enlightenment brilliant Sometimes you meet yourself on the road before you have a chance to learn the appropriate greeting. Faced with your own possibilities, the hard part is knowing a speech is not required. All you have to say is yes. Pearl Cleage speech knowing inspiration ...freedom can be a full-time job if you let it. Pearl Cleage full-time-jobs ifs jobs you can't know the meaning of the lesson until class is over! Pearl Cleage lessons knows class When you're young, there's a whole lot of stuff you say you'll never do. Once you get a little older, the list tends to get shorter. Pearl Cleage lists stuff littles I think it's hard to make a living as a writer, but I think it's hard to work at McDonald's too.... I think the commitment is to get up everyday and say, "I'm a writer, therefore what I'm supposed to do today is write." And to do that, and to do that and to do that. Pearl Cleage success writing commitment the problem with knowing is that it takes away the possibility of pretending! Pearl Cleage possibility problem knowing Buying flowers is not just a way to bring home beauty. It's an expression of confidence that better days are coming. It's a defiant finger in the face of those naysayers who would have you believe your fortunes will never improve. Pearl Cleage flower home believe Feminism is to sexism what black nationalism is to racism; the most rational response to the problem. Pearl Cleage diversity racism justice Vera Stark is a fabulous force of nature. Pearl Cleage forces-of-nature fabulous force I think that theater is a unique way to communicate with people as they gather together with other people they may not even know. It creates a sense of shared community for the time of the performance that hopefully carries over into other aspects of the audience's life because they have shared this experience together. Pearl Cleage unique people thinking old habits are hard to break, but not impossible! Pearl Cleage old-habits break impossible Any time your life is at stake and you can't find even one woman to come forward and say, 'This is a good man,' your problem isn't what kind of woman THEY are. Your problem is what kind of men YOU are. Pearl Cleage good-man kind men You know the Buddhists believe that sometimes when everything is in turmoil, it's because something wonderful is ready to be born and that thing is distracting you so it can have some privacy during the birthing process. Pearl Cleage buddhist privacy believe Putting words on paper regularly is part of the necessary discipline of writing. A journal is a great way to do that. Pearl Cleage discipline paper writing Sisterhood is a funny thing. It's easy to recognize, but hard to define. Pearl Cleage sisterhood funny-things easy
