I've seen firsthand that being president doesn't change who you are. It reveals who you are. Michelle Obama More Quotes by Michelle Obama More Quotes From Michelle Obama As a mom, I know it is my responsibility, and no one else's, to raise my kids. But we have to ask ourselves, what does it mean when so many parents are finding their best efforts undermined by an avalanche of advertisements aimed at our kids. Michelle Obama mom mother mean I always encourage people to start in their own personal universe, because sometimes we as parents start thinking about the big picture. How do I change what's happening in my entire school? And how do I do it in my community? And then you get overwhelmed and it's just like, "Forget it, I'll just stay here in my kitchen and wait." But, start small. 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You shouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't make you completely happy and make you feel whole. Michelle Obama heart cute men People are always going to have opinions, and people have a right to their opinions. Michelle Obama opinion people I am an example of what is possible when girls from the very beginning of their lives are loved and nurtured by people around them. I was surrounded by extraordinary women in my life who taught me about quiet strength and dignity. Michelle Obama empowerment girl people I believe that each of us-no matter what our age or background or walk of life-each of us has something to contribute to the life of this nation. Michelle Obama african-american age believe Clearly this is a tough economic time, and a lot of families are hurting. So when we talk to parents, we talk about small changes for kids and things that don't cost extra money. Like adding water and eliminating sugary drinks and sodas. That's going to save money right there. 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