I was a threat to a lot of women and to a lot of men. The women cannot forgive me if I remain single and also have a family. But I have a family as well and am raising them. A lot of women only stay in their marriages because of the children so seeing me on my own annoys them.

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Categorized in : Children Men Forgive Me

But who made the law that we should not hope in our daughters? We women subscribe to that law more than anyone. Until we change all this, it is still a man's world, which women will always help to build.

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daughter law men

I am a woman and a woman of Africa. I am a daughter of Nigeria and if she is in shame, I shall stayand mourn with her in shame.

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mourn shame daughter

I work toward the liberation of women, but I'm not feminist. I'm just a woman.

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liberation feminist

I'm not just a feminist - I'm a feminist plus.

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plus feminist

Women should not be suppressed because they are women, because they have children and because of men. Then I am a feminist. But when it comes to the African concept, for the moment, I say 'feminist plus'. We have so many other problems.

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feminist men children

Black women all over the world should re-unite and re-examine the way history has portrayed us.

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black way world

A hungry man is an angry one.

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hungry inspirational men

I believe it is important to speak to your readers in person... to enable people to have a whole picture of me; I have to both write and speak. I view my role as writer and also as oral communicator.

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views writing believe

Few things are as bad as a guilty conscience.

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guilty-conscience conscience guilty

When I came to England it wasn't what it is now, then the black people were very rarely strong. I had a personal shock because England wasn't what I expected it to be... where people lived like Jane Austen.

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black strong people

Being a woman writer, I would be deceiving myself if I said I write completely through the eye of a man. There's nothing bad in it, but that does not make me a feminist writer. I hate that name. The tag is from the Western world - like we are called the Third World.

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hate eye writing

The first book I wrote was The Bride Price which was a romantic book, but my husband burnt the book when he saw it. I was the typical African woman, I'd done this privately, I wanted him to look at it, approve it and he said he wouldn't read it.

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typical husband book

I always value my large kitchen because it was better to do everything there, you wash up, you do everything, rather than messing up another room and I pop my typewriter just next to it. So I still write now but I was doing more writing when the children were younger.

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typewriters writing children

I came to England in 1962 as a very young bride, in my teens, hoping just to stay two years and go back.

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teens two years

Men blackmailing you as a woman leads you to trivialise sex and say 'it's not important, what is important is myself as a person, no one owns me because of sex.'

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important men sex

In all my novels, I deal with the many problems and prejudices which exist for Black people in Britain today.

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prejudice black people

As soon as I finish a book, I sell the paperback rights to different publishers and that's where I recoup my money.

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different rights book

I like to be called a Nigerian rather than somebody from the Third World or the developing or whatever.

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thirds developing world

I usually make sure that my stories are from Africa or my own background so as to highlight the cultural background at the same time as telling the story.

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own story my-own time