I was surprised how open and unguarded the military was. I expected more scrutiny, more supervision from command. Sebastian Junger More Quotes by Sebastian Junger More Quotes From Sebastian Junger I think human society for tens of thousands of years has sent young men out in small groups to do things that are necessary but very dangerous. And they've always gotten killed doing it. And they've always turned it into a matter of honor and a way of gaining acceptance back into society if they survived. Sebastian Junger acceptance men thinking I have been working since I was 20, and I'm 38. I actually once averaged out what I had made over my professional life. I think I could have made that much as a waiter or an insurance salesman. You know, I spent so many years in my 20's making $10,000 a year. Sebastian Junger made years thinking The army consists of the first infantry division and eight million replacements. 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Sebastian Junger wife house tree No one will remember that President Obama supported the Arab Spring if it eventually fails and the region collapses back into the political Dark Ages. If we actively engage these movements with advice, with money, and, when necessary, with military force, then we get a vote in how it all turns out. Sebastian Junger military dark spring