I wasn't there. I don't know what happened. I'm not calling anyone a liar, i'm just saying, it's difficult and upsetting for me to wrap my head around it. Look, it was a long time ago, but we were together for four years, and it was a big relationship for me. Imagine if someone you dated when you were – I was 17 when I met him – was accused of that. It's just shocking. I have never seen him be violent toward a person before.

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When you finally accept that it's OK not to have answers and it's OK not to be perfect, you realize that feeling confused is a normal part of what it is to be a human being.

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I've learned that it's OK to be flawed, that life can be messy, that some days you glide and some days you fall, but most important, that there are no secret answers out there.

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You go through spells where you feel that maybe you're too sensitive for this world. I certainly felt that.

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Crazy isn't being broken, or swallowing a dark secret. It's you or me, amplified.

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I was inspired by lots of people, certainly in acting and in writing and stuff, but I never wanted to be somebody else.

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When I met Johnny, I was pure virgin. He changed that. He was my first everything. My first real kiss. My first real boyfriend. My first fiancé. The first guy I had sex with. So he'll always be in my heart. Forever. Kind of funny that word.

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Suddenly you're the mom, or you go from ... You're not an ingénue, you don't want to play an ingénue, but it's like that line in The First Wives Club [1996]: "There are only three ages for women in Hollywood: babe, district attorney, and Driving Miss Daisy."

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A woman who wears high heels is very different, I think, than a woman who wears sandals.

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You have good days and bad days, and depression's something that, you know, is always with you.

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You can't pay enough money to... cure that feeling of being broken and confused.

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I am not a person who can really sit around and think about regrets because with every bad experience that you have, there is weirdly something good that comes from it.

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I was mid-sentence when the casting director said, "Listen, kid. You should not be an actress. You are not pretty enough. You should go back to wherever you came from and you should go to school. You don't have it." She was very blunt - I honestly think that she thought she was doing me a favor.

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I write pretty much every day, but I don't have any desire to publish anything.

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As an actress, you want to try new things. You don't want to repeat yourself. That becomes more important to you, as you get older.

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I thought it was a cool parallel. Being replaced by the young thing. I know that definitely happens in Hollywood. It's harder to find good roles, and suddenly there's new girls. I'm at that age I've been warned my whole life about.

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In high school, I dressed up as every James Bond girl. I was a teenage Pussy Galore.

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Money doesn't matter on a deeply personal level. It doesn't make you feel any happier. But of course I am very aware that I don't have to worry about earning a living or about those very important practical things that most people have to worry about on a very real level.

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I remember when I first started being in magazines, I had pretty thin skin. I was this nerd that read books and stayed home and didn't go out.

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I've learned that it's OK to be flawed.

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You're lucky if you're in three great movies, or even one great movie. I've been so lucky. But if you rely on the business to dictate whether you're happy, it gets really complicated. You just can't do that. There have been times in my life that I've done that, and I've found it depressing.

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