I would say that my parents were intermittently proud of me. They couldn't hang onto it, you know? It would come and go, like the flu. John Patrick Shanley More Quotes by John Patrick Shanley More Quotes From John Patrick Shanley Choose Life over the other stuff. Get out of your head. Live. Dress up. Eat. Touch people. Help out. Give up. Love people. Give your best away. There’s more. What’s the problem? Relax. You’re going to die. Throw a party. Eat off my plate. Sing to me. Meet me in the bedroom. Get a massage. Give one. Let your amazement out into the room. Pry open the box you hide your joy in. Be a poem. John Patrick Shanley giving-uplovelife I am not a courageous person by nature. I have simply discovered that, at certain key moments in this life, you must find courage in yourself, in order to move forward and live. It is like a muscle and it must be exercised, first a little, and then more and more. All the really exciting things possible during the course of a lifetime require a little more courage than we currently have. A deep breath and a leap. John Patrick Shanley keyscouragemoving Theatre is the safe place to do the unsafe things that need to be done. John Patrick Shanley theatredoneneeds Doubt requires more courage than conviction does, and more energy; because conviction is a resting place and doubt is infinite – it is a passionate exercise. You may come out of my play uncertain. You may want to be sure. Look down on that feeling. We’ve got to learn to live with a full measure of uncertainty. There is no last word. That’s the silence under the chatter of our time. John Patrick Shanley silenceplayexercise Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I didn't know this either, but love don't make things nice - it ruins everything. It breaks your heart. It makes things a mess. We aren't here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts and love the wrong people and *die*. The storybooks are *bullshit*. Now I want you to come upstairs with me and *get* in my bed! John Patrick Shanley starsinspirationallove Whatever you do in terms of telling a story, the most important thing that you can define is who you are. John Patrick Shanley termimportantstories There are people who...tell you that the light in your heart is a weakness. Don't believe it! It's an old tactic of cruel people to kill kindness in the name of virtue. John Patrick Shanley kindnessheartbelieve People ask me if I believe in things: in God, in astrology, and I say, absolutely! I believe in everything! And I believe in its opposite. Like the positive and negative volts on a battery, you need both for power. John Patrick Shanley astrologyoppositesbelieve If I could, Sister James, I would certainly choose to live in innocence. But innocence can only be wisdom in a world without evil. Situations arise and we are confronted with wrongdoing and the need to act. John Patrick Shanley evilworldneeds I think that certainty is a closed door, It's the end of the conversation. Doubt is an open door. John Patrick Shanley doubtdoorsthinking I'd like to thank everybody who ever punched or kissed me in my life and everybody who I ever punched or kissed. John Patrick Shanley Winning the Pulitzer is a really mellow, fabulous thing. You don't sit and wait for them to open an envelope. You already know you won, and you have a nice lunch. Oscars are more stressful. I had to sit for three hours and wait for my category. I had to fly to Los Angeles. For the Pulitzer I just had to go up to Columbia. But, while the president of Columbia gave me the Pulitzer, Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck gave me the Oscar, so that was better. John Patrick Shanley lunchnicewinning Everything is painful, so why not be honest about the pain? John Patrick Shanley why-nothonestpain Where the terror is, you must go. John Patrick Shanley terror Monogamy is like a 40-watt bulb. It works, but its not enough. John Patrick Shanley bulbsmonogamyenough Trying to lead an interesting life, a fruitful life, is a big challenge. John Patrick Shanley challengestryinginteresting When I write a screenplay - and I think this is true for a lot of people - you direct the movie. Thats what writing a screenplay is. John Patrick Shanley writingpeoplethinking If you put someone in a room with no script to direct, they're just going to sit there. Writing scripts is the execution for a show. Then the director takes that and hires people. It's like trying to build a house without any bricks. John Patrick Shanley housewritingpeople All plays stem from personal experience. I was reading psychoanalytic lit for a couple of years, obsessively, in depth, and I got involved in analyzing everyone around me. . . . Eventually, all my friends' eyes began to glaze over when I started talking this way, and I got the hint that there might be something comical in it. John Patrick Shanley coupleeyereading I have doubts! I have such doubts! John Patrick Shanley doubt
