If we would just slow down, happiness would catch up to us. Richard Carlson More Quotes by Richard Carlson More Quotes From Richard Carlson True happiness comes not when we get rid of all of our problems,but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice, and to learn. Richard Carlson practice opportunity motivational Choose to be kind over being right and you'll be right everytime. Richard Carlson rude kindness motivational Something wonderful begins to happen with the simple realization that life, like an automobile, is driven from the inside out, not the other way around. As you focus more on becoming more peaceful with where you are, rather than focusing on where you would rather be, you begin to find peace right now, in the present. Then, as you move around, try new things, and meet new people, you carry that sense of inner peace with you. It's absolutely true that, "Wherever you go, there you are. Richard Carlson simple peace moving Find your true path. It’s so easy to become someone we don’t want to be, without even realizing it’s happening. We are created by the choices we make every day. And if we take action in order to please some authority figure, we’ll suddenly wake up down the road and say, “This isn’t me. I never wanted to be this person. Richard Carlson wake-up choices order Effective listening is more than simply avoiding the bad habit of interrupting others while they are speaking or finishing their sentences. It's being content to listen to the entire thought of someone rather than waiting impatiently for your chance to respond. Richard Carlson effective-listening waiting motivational Meanwhile, life keeps moving forward. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Richard Carlson truth-is right-now moving Ironically, when you surrender your need to hog the glory, the attention you used to need from other people is replaced by a quiet inner confidence that is derived from letting others have it. Richard Carlson attention people needs Don't sweat the small stuff...and it's all small stuff. Richard Carlson sweat stress business Learning to stop sweating the small stuff involves deciding what things to engage in and what things to ignore. From a certain perspective, life can be described as a series of mistakes, one right after another with a little space in between. Richard Carlson perspective space mistake ...when you let go of your expectations, when you accept life as it is, you're free.To hold on is to be serious and uptight. To let go is to lighten up. Richard Carlson uptight expectations letting-go One of the mistakes many of us make is that we feel sorry for ourselves, or for others, thinking that life should be fair, or that someday it will be. It's not and it won't. When we make this mistake we tend to spend a lot of time wallowing and/or complaining about what's wrong with life. "It's not fair," we complain, not realizing that, perhaps, it was never intended to be. Richard Carlson sorry mistake motivational Children listen best with their eyes. What you do is what they hear. Richard Carlson eye children When you take time , often to reflect on the miracle of life - the miracle that you are even able to read this book - the gift of sight ,of love and all the rest , it can hep to remind you that many of the things that you think as "big stuff" are really just "small stuff" that you are turning into big tuff Richard Carlson sight book thinking If, however, you take a moment to observe how you actually feel immediately after you criticise someone, you'll notice that you will feel a little deflated and ashamed, almost like you're the one who has been attacked. The reason this is true is that when we criticise, it's a statement to the world and to ourselves, "I have a need to be critical." This isn't something we are usually proud to admit. Richard Carlson proud world needs Many people spend their entire lifetimes wishing that other people would acknowledge them. They feel this especially about their parents, spouses, children, and friends. Richard Carlson parent children people Reflection is one of the most underused yet powerful tools for success. Richard Carlson powerful tools reflection as you begin to eliminate your need for perfection in all areas of your life, you'll begin to discover the perfection in life itself Richard Carlson perfection motivational needs Life is a process--just one thing after another. When you lose it, just start again. Richard Carlson just-one process life-is we need to break the habit of overreacting because of our speedy assumption and judgments Richard Carlson judgment assumption needs We deny the parts of ourselves that we deem unacceptable rather than accepting the fact that we're all less than perfect. Richard Carlson perfect motivational facts
