Jen came first, and then they wanted to cast somebody that would... Kevin liked the idea of having a kind of The Ghost of That Character kind of haunt the movie in a way throughout, by having Raquel look so much like her. And also, it was sort of serendipity. I mean, she was also the best actress. I mean, as you can see Raquel has a pretty appealing, engaging kind of precocious, sparkly quality that's... it was just luck really that she happened to the film.

Ben Affleck

No matter how much you change, you still got to pay the price for the things you’ve done.

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It doesn't matter how you get knocked down in life, because that's going to happen. All that matters is that you gotta get up.

Ben Affleck

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I want to thank my wife who I don't normally usually associate with Iran. I want to thank you for working on our marriage for 10 Christmases. It's good. It is work, but it's the best kind of work, and there's no one I'd rather work with!

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All I do, really, is go to work and try to be professional, be on time and be prepared.

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Affleck was the bomb in Phantoms.

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If I ever woke up with a dead hooker in my hotel room, Matt would be the first person I'd call.

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It's important for me to try my hand at philanthropy because I want to leave behind a record of someone who did more than just gobble up stuff for themselves. I realized that a life lived for yourself is not much of a life.

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The value of work, and of always learning something new, and what it takes to achieve excellence. I really believe in those things that you have to dedicate yourself and spend time, that excellence is elusive. It's a little maddening, to try to have that level of discipline in your life, and I don't succeed all the time. But I do try.

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No matter what you're doing, if you're trying to make a movie, you need to be working with people that are really good and who make you better.

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I'm trying to make people feel welcome and feel valued.

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Marriage hasn't been my thing. But gay people, knock yourselves out!

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I find forgiveness to be really healthy.

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Sure, I suffered a lot. But it's not like the end of the world and it's not who I am. I lead quite a pleasant life and I'm able to divorce a perceived reality from my actual experience of life.

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I'm a writer. An amateur photographer. An actor.

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You get old, you slow down.

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When I look up at the screen and see myself I always have to laugh. Not because I think I'm doing a horrible job, quite the contrary, I just feel it's so surreal to feel like one person can entertain so many at one time.

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When you are in your 20s and you're not married with kids, you're having fun. But when you're in your 30s and you're not married and don't have kids, you begin to develop a Peter Pan complex. As you grow older, you have more responsibilities and you have to step up to them.

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I like acting for myself as a director. I act and I know that I'll have a chance to have some say in what gets used and that I'll be able to give myself enough takes and be on the same page as myself about how the scene should play.

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I've never held myself up particularly high when I had movies that worked, and I never held myself all that low when I had failures.

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It wasn't my childhood fantasy to work with Truffaut or be in obscure films. I like Midnight Run better than I like The Bicycle Thief. It was films like Die Hard and Bladerunner that made me want to be an actor.

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