Life for women in rural Scotland is not like anywhere else in the world. We all live very far apart, and you don't just ring your girlfriend up for a cup of coffee. There really is no sense of community, no pubs, no clubs. The golf clubs are male prerogatives, and the women are isolated and have to have their own resources.

Rosamunde Pilcher

Categorized in : You Life Coffee Women

It is better to travel hopefully than to arrive. Arrival often brings nothing but a sense of desolation and disappointment.

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hopefully desolation disappointment

Life is so extraordinary. Wonderful surprises are just around the most unexpected corners.

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unexpected life-is wonderful

She thought of the last couple of years: the boredom, the narrowness of existence, the dearth of anything to look forward to. Yet now, in a single instant, the curtains had been whipped aside, and the windows been thrown open onto a brillant view that had been there, waiting for her, all the time. A view, moreover, laden with the most marvellous possibilities and opportunities.

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couple views opportunity

Writing is work, but it's also a compulsion, and once you get your characters on paper, you can't abandon them. You have to respond to them.

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paper writing character

She remembered him smiling, and realized that time, that great old healer, had finally accomplished its work, and now, across the years, the face of love no longer stirred up agonies of grief and bitterness. Rather, one was left feeling simply grateful. For how unimaginably empty the past would be without him to remember.

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grateful grief past

It was good, and nothing good is truly lost. It stays part of a person, becomes part of their character. So part of you goes everywhere with me. And part of me is yours, forever

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lovers forever character

Happiness is making the most of what you have, and riches is making the most of what you've got.

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riches

Beyond the pain, life continues to be sweet. The basics are still there. Beauty, food and friendship, reservoirs of love and understanding. Later, possibly not yet, you are going to need others who will encourage you to make new beginnings. Welcome them. They will help you move on, to cherish happy memories and confront the painful ones with more than bitterness and anger.

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pain sweet memories

Things happen they way they're meant to. There's a pattern and a shape to everything...Nothing happens without a reason...Nothing is impossible...(Page 180).

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patterns pages shapes

The greatest gift a parent can leave a child is that parent's own independence.

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independence parent children

And the wicked thing is, that when we're really upset, we always take it out on the people who are closest and whom we love the most.

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upset wicked people

There's a war on. We don't know how anything's going to end. We just have to grasp each fleeting moment of joy as it whizzes by.

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fleeting joy war

They will come, not to paint the bay and the sea and the boots and the moors, but the warmth of the sun and the colour of the wind. A whole new concept. Such stimulation. Such vitality.

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sea sun wind

She believed, of course ... because without something to believe in, life would be intolerable.

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courses would-be believe

It was good and nothing good is ever lost.

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lost

I wasn't good enough. I had a little talent but not enough. There is nothing more discouraging than having just a little talent.

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good-enough talent littles

Grief is a funny thing because you don't have to carry it with you for the rest of your life. After a bit you set it down by the roadside and walk on and leave it.

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rest-of-your-life funny-things grief

I'm getting too elderly to travel the length of the country for a free hangover.

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elderly hangover country

It was better not to get too close to another person. The closer you got, the more likely you were to get hurt.

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persons hurt

Other people's houses were always fascinating. As soon as you went through the door for the first time, you got the feel of the atmosphere, and so discovered something about the personalities of the people who lived there.

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house doors people