Making bad decisions and choosing the wrong partner can ruin your life for a long time, perhaps forever. Karrine Steffans More Quotes by Karrine Steffans More Quotes From Karrine Steffans As for the healing, that comes from the writing, from living and writing. That's my catharsis. That's why I never regret sharing because it's part of my healing! Karrine Steffans regret healing writing My happiness came from learning my purpose, which is to be honest and to share things that normal people probably wouldn't share, in an effort to support and uplift other women. I love that my journey gives other women hope, letting them see how far God can bring a soul. Karrine Steffans uplifting journey people Everyone has to grow up and that's what we're all doing; we're just doing it in different ways. Karrine Steffans growing-up different way I want them [female fans] to not be afraid to live life, to not be afraid to make bad decisions because there are a lot of lessons and blessings in those decisions. Sometimes, if you don't fall into the pit, you won't reach out to God. Karrine Steffans live-life blessing fall When you start defining yourself, you put yourself in boxes and I don't want to be trapped in anything because I will always evolve - I will always change. It's like water. I take on many shapes. Everyone should be that way and not define themselves. I am everything. Karrine Steffans defining shapes water Everyone is so afraid of making themselves look bad and of judgement. Karrine Steffans judgement looks It's my job to turn my mess [life] into a message and never regret a day of my life. Karrine Steffans regret messages jobs I'm surprised that people think they're important. To me they're not. Karrine Steffans important people thinking The saying is, life is short, but what if it's not? But if life is short, is this how you would like to spend your last days? And if life is long, is this how you want to spend 50, 60, or 70 years? Being ashamed? Being quiet? Hoping no one notices you? Not telling the truth? Walking around heavy? If I die in my sleep tonight, God forbid, I am happy with how I've lived my life. I've lived it truthfully. Karrine Steffans life-is-short sleep years People don't change at their core. If you're a good person, you are a good person. What changes is our behavior. Karrine Steffans good-person behavior people I am not to be defined. I am all things. I am the queen of everything. Every woman is. Karrine Steffans queens There are some people who are very powerful who I will never name, because I want to be able to work in this town. Karrine Steffans very-powerful powerful people For women especially, its important to be financially independent. Karrine Steffans independent important A lot of times, women complain about men around them. It's not always someone else's fault. If you're the common denominator in 57 different relationships that didn't work out, then maybe, just maybe... it's you! Karrine Steffans work-out different men I never heard 'I love you' as a child. I never felt pretty or cared for. Karrine Steffans heard love-you children I remember specifically my mother telling me growing up don't put my business in the street. I was like seven, and I am like, 'What does that mean. Karrine Steffans growing-up mother mean Something that always fascinated me was the psychology and the psychology differences between men and women and how we relate to one another. Karrine Steffans psychology differences men The entertainment industry is vast and is a reflection of the society we live in. Karrine Steffans entertainment-industry entertainment reflection I've been writing since I'm five years old. I've been writing books since high school - junior high, high school. I write every single day. I never thought I'd be published. Karrine Steffans writing book school Confessions of a Video Vixen' is not a book about my encounters with celebrities, or anyone else for that matter. It is my life story, thus far, which just so happens to include some people you may have heard of. Karrine Steffans encounters book people