Many psychotherapists believe laziness is usually just the symptom. That the real problem is fear of failure, fear of success, or fear of authority. Marty Nemko More Quotes by Marty Nemko More Quotes From Marty Nemko Liberalism's key principle is to redistribute wealth from the haves to the have nots. That takes money from the entities with the greatest potential to improve society (for example, corporations that create jobs, invent life-saving medicines, etc.) and redistributes it to the people, whom on average, will never contribute more to society than to hold a menial job. Marty Nemko keysaveragejobs A half-hour before bedtime, I remind myself that I now deserve to prepare myself for a good night's sleep. You can't focus on your work if you're sleep-deprived even if you have a fascinating job. Marty Nemko good-nightsleepjobs Some parents let kids "learn on their own skin" and many of those kids end up, as adults, languishing on their parents' sofas. Marty Nemko skinsparentkids Being sleep-derived not only hurts you at work, it hurts your health. You need to value yourself enough to have good sleep hygiene. Marty Nemko hygienehurtsleep Behaviorism is sometimes criticized as encouraging unethical behavior. For example, most organizations offer rewards for increasing revenue and threat of punishment, perhaps firing if you don't "make your number." Marty Nemko threatbehaviorsometimes Few people make a living as a public speaker but many people build it into their career. A career is like a suit of clothes: to look its best, it must be tailored and accessorized. So whatever career you choose, let's say it's social work - you can, for example, ask your boss - if you can give talks at housing project community centers about the social services available. Marty Nemko communitygivingpeople Some people who are recovering from depression want to use the lessons they're learned in coping with depression and their empathy for people with depression. Others want their career to have nothing to do with depression. Marty Nemko copingempathypeople When you're going to school primarily for career purposes, it's more important to focus on which program is best for you. In addition, your success at college depends far more on what you do at the college than at which college you do it: Choosing the right program, then the right advisor, the right courses, the right term papers, the right co-curricular activities, the right fieldwork, the right internships. You can make those choices at any college. Marty Nemko choicescollegeschool Education isn't a magic pill. There is no magic pill. But the closest we have is practical expertise and relentless drive. Marty Nemko expertiserelentlessmagic I believe that a core problem with undergraduate education, especially at research universities like Harvard, Stanford, NYU, etc, is that most teaching is done by PhDs, who by temperament, training, interests, and rewards are researchers first. So they spend most of their time and energy probing a snip of a field's cutting edge. In my view, the attributes needed to be a transformative undergraduate instructor are pretty orthogonal to that. It would seem that undergraduate education would be superior if there was a separate track for teaching faculty. Marty Nemko cuttingteachingbelieve Entrepreneurship may be the most under-taught subject. Marty Nemko entrepreneurshiptaughtmay What may create even more jobs is to develop more entrepreneurs, of course, ethical ones. Marty Nemko entrepreneurmayjobs The lack of crispness comes significantly from a societal change in what's valued: a replacement of bold individual initiative with collaboration, consensus, teamwork etc. All that team-involved decision-making often leads to tepid solutions and a slow-moving organization. Marty Nemko organizationteamworkmoving We're in an era in which we want to believe people have roughly equal potential. IQ gives the lie to that. Marty Nemko believelyingpeople It's absurd how aspirants to designer-label colleges become obsessed with perfection so they can get into one. I'm not convinced it's worth prostituting yourself for that. Marty Nemko labelscollegeperfection I think people's feeling the need to be more dependent on others is caused more by the lack of good-paying jobs and by today's zeitgeist that insists it takes a village. That's disempowering although possibly true for many people. Marty Nemko it-takes-a-villagejobsthinking Only someone who already knows and likes you is likely to give you a good job with modest relevant experience. Marty Nemko likesjobsgiving You need to create a 30-minute buffer between the end of your work time and sleep time. Marty Nemko endssleepneeds I believe the personal essay is underrated for both writer and reader. It affords the writer great freedom: to speak personally yet invoke others' ideas, to be rational and/or emotional, to be confident or admit doubt. Marty Nemko emotionalbelieveideas Essayists write at a length that enables them, within a year, to explore a number of topics, whereas in a book, they'll likely only get to address one. Marty Nemko writingbookyears
