Men are not gentle, friendly creatures wishing for love, who simply defend themselves if they are attacked, but ... a powerful measure of desire for aggression had to be reckoned as part of their instinctual endowment. Sigmund Freud More Quotes by Sigmund Freud More Quotes From Sigmund Freud Not all men are worthy of love. Sigmund Freud worthy-of-love worthy men Mans most disagreeable habits and idiosyncrasies, his deceit, his cowardice, his lack of reverence, are engendered by his incomplete adjustment to a complicated civilisation. It is the result of the conflict between our instincts and our culture. Sigmund Freud deceit conflict culture Conscience is the internal perception of the rejection of a particular wish operating within us. Sigmund Freud rejection perception wish A poor girl may have an illusion that a prince will come and fetch her home. It is possible, some such cases have occurred. That the Messiah will come and found a golden age is much less probable. Sigmund Freud girl age home A civilization which leaves so large a number of its participants unsatisfied and drives them into revolt neither has nor deserves the prospect of a lasting existence. Sigmund Freud perspective numbers civilization Let us consider the polarity of love and hate.... Now, clinical observation shows not only that love is with unexpected regularityaccompanied by hate (ambivalence), and not only that in human relationships hate is frequently a forerunner of love, but also that in many circumstances hate changes into love and love into hate. Sigmund Freud unexpected hate love If you want to endure life, prepare yourself for death. Sigmund Freud endure want life Dreams are the royal road to the unconscious. Sigmund Freud summarizing royal dream Perception is less of a recording system and more of a protection system against external stimuli. Sigmund Freud stimulus protection perception The true believer is in a high degree protected against the danger of certain neurotic afflictions; by accepting the universal neurosis he is spared the task of forming a personal neurosis. Sigmund Freud affliction atheism tasks So in every individual the two trends, one towards personal happiness and the other unity with the rest of humanity, must contend with each other. Sigmund Freud unity humanity two It is impossible to overlook the extent to which civilization is built upon a renunciation of instinct. Sigmund Freud natural-instinct intuition civilization Flowers are restful to look at. They have neither emotions nor conflicts. Sigmund Freud inspirational-life flower looks Properly speaking, the unconscious is the real psychic; its inner nature is just as unknown to us as the reality of the external world, and it is just as imperfectly reported to us through the data of consciousness as is the external world through the indications of our sensory organs. Sigmund Freud psychics data real The adoption of the required attitude of mind towards ideas that seem to emerge "of their own free will" and the abandonment of the critical function that is normally in operation against them seem to be hard of achievement for some people. The "involuntary thoughts" are liable to release a most violent resistance, which seeks to prevent their emergence. If we may trust that great poet and philosopher Friedrich Schiller, however, poetic creation must demand an exactly similar attitude. Sigmund Freud attitude people ideas I cannot face with comfort the idea of life without work; work and the free play of the imagination are for me the same thing, I take no pleasure in anything else. Sigmund Freud hard-work play ideas If the truth of religious doctrines is dependent on an inner experience that bears witness to the truth, what is one to make of the many people who do not have that experience? Sigmund Freud doctrine religious people Against the suffering which may come upon one from human relationships the readiest safeguard is voluntary isolation, keeping oneself aloof from other people. The happiness which can be achieved along this path is, as we see, the happiness of quietness. Against the dreaded external world one can only defend oneself by some kind of turning away from it, if one intends to solve the task by oneself. Sigmund Freud solitude suffering people Poets are masters of us ordinary men, in knowledge of the mind, because they drink at streams which we have not yet made accessible to science. Sigmund Freud poetry men knowledge What good to us is a long life if it is difficult and barren of joys, and if it is so full of misery that we can only welcome death as a deliverer? Sigmund Freud joy life long