No is always a door-closing word; Yes is a door-opening word. Thomas Dreier More Quotes by Thomas Dreier More Quotes From Thomas Dreier It is better to give love. Hatred is a low and degrading motion and is so poisonous that no man is strong enough to use it safely. The hatred we think we are directing against some person or thing or system has a devilish way of turning back upon us. When we seek revenge we administer slow poison to ourselves. When we administer affection it is astonishing what magical results we obtain. Thomas Dreier strong revenge love Talking about your grievances merely adds to those grievances. Give recognition only to what you desire. Thomas Dreier adversity talking giving