One of the biggest regrets I have in life is not getting an opportunity to work with Yash Chopra.

Arfi Lamba

Categorized in : Regrets Life Opportunity Work

As I look back and connect the dots, all I want to do is go back and hug my scared young self, who took a lot of steps out of impulse not knowing what will happen. So many nights of disappointment, so many others of being disillusioned where I would have just gone ahead and quit it all - I still do not know what kept me hanging in there.

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I left my cushy job as an engineer in New Delhi in 2008 to pursue acting in Mumbai. I figured roles will start pouring in as soon as I landed in the city, but my bubble burst quickly.

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It is all about playing a challenging role, and whether a film is a commercial one or not does not really matter.

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When I didn't become the quintessential Yash Chopra hero, I got into the 'struggle' period and became negative.

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Labels are actually not to make us understand things better: they are actually to ostracise and discriminate that what does not belong to the majority.

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In 'Fugly,' I play a very middle-class guy with whom anyone can relate. At the same time, playing such characters is not as easy as it sounds.

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I arrived thinking I had these amazing looks and body and that I would straight away land the lead in a Yash Chopra film. Those fancy ideas got quashed soon enough.

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After joining theatre, I started thinking that acting in films was not half as challenging as theatre.

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As a true-blue Punjabi, I have learnt to tackle disappointments, especially since I have no godfather in the industry.

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Success is just around the corner, but I don't want to rush into anything.

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I think I was born to be an actor.

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My role in 'Slumdog Millionaire' was a cameo, but it did expose me to cinema and took me to Cannes. I then did 'Prague,' which was a very niche film.

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I've been a protected child, but I moved out for further studies when I was 16, and I have travelled quite a bit by myself.

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Everybody in my family is very well educated. I'm probably the only one who is not a double post graduate.

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Making independent films is liberating. It eliminates self-censorship, which mainstream films are infected with due to commercial priorities.

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A good story needs equally good talent to foster it.

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Some independent Indian films do so well at these festivals in Europe and in the United States that when they come back, India just cannot ignore them.

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There have been a bunch of Indian films in English that found an audience.

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Akshay Kumar is like a guru. He made a mark in the industry without any godfather. Akshay sir is a superstar only because of his hard work and talent.

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I had travelled to a lot of cities in Europe before, but Prague was special. It held a mysterious attraction for me for during the time I was there.

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