Only alone can you go into eternity. Only alone can you feel the transcendental light. It is not a shared experience because if it is shared, you are down in duality. Frederick Lenz More Quotes by Frederick Lenz More Quotes From Frederick Lenz The problem with love is attachment; love makes you dependent. Unattached love - you love for the hell of it. Frederick Lenz buddhism love-you love-is Love has very little to do with a person. It comes from us. You can love a surprisingly great number of people. Frederick Lenz buddhism numbers people Relationships are a proving ground for love. Frederick Lenz sexuality buddhism prove Practice love in your relationships. The key to this is avoiding expectation. It's expectation that makes most people miserable in love - the return on the investment. Frederick Lenz buddhism keys practice When you love someone, you shouldn't feel that they should love in return. You have to give people freedom. Frederick Lenz buddhism giving people You cannot compel someone to love. Love is like the wind. It comes when it does, it stops when it does, it changes direction when it does. Who are you and I to criticize the wind? Frederick Lenz buddhism love-is wind Love has its own independent form and formlessness. When someone loves you be gratiful for it. If they stop loving be grateful for that. If they love another, let them love! Frederick Lenz independent grateful love-you Know that life, which does everything perfectly, is now moving you in a new direction. The chess piece of your existence is being moved to a new square on the board of life. Frederick Lenz chess-pieces buddhism moving Don't try to hold people to you, don't try to push them away. Let life do everything for you. This is the proper attitude on the path of love. Frederick Lenz buddhism attitude people It's necessary when you follow the path of love to love those around you first. Desire tells us that we should have someone else in our life. Frederick Lenz buddhism should-have desire If someone else is supposed to be in your life, they will be in your life - you can't stop them from coming if its the will of eternity. Frederick Lenz sexuality buddhism eternity The purpose of life is to love, not necessarily to be loved. Frederick Lenz buddhism purpose life-is There is wisdom to loving. Frederick Lenz sexuality buddhism Love more deeply and without the sense of what you love being your personal possession. Frederick Lenz sexuality buddhism love-is Love is something that comes to us in life. Quietly, it overwhelms us. It is something that you cultivate. You make it happen. Frederick Lenz sexuality buddhism love-is Love is something that we don't control. We have to be ourselves. You can be sexual, nonsexual, asexual, bisexual, or trisexual and it really doesn't have a lot to do with enlightenment. Frederick Lenz bisexual buddhism love-is A number of Guru's feel that there is something wrong or sick about being gay. I think it really doesn't matter what your sexual preference is; what matters is the quality of your love. Frederick Lenz buddhism gay thinking In terms of spiritual development, it's not a big deal whether you have sex or not, the question is more of who you have sex with and what their energy is doing to you. Frederick Lenz buddhism spiritual sex If you are having sex with someone who is not on the same frequency that you are on, it can be very problematic. The greatest karmic transfer occurs in having sex with someone. Frederick Lenz transfers buddhism sex Human beings are confused, deluded and generally un-awakened. So as a person who seeks to increase their energy, you have to be very careful about who you have intimate contact with. Frederick Lenz buddhism confused energy
