People who don't have experience setting healthy boundaries, they have secrets instead. Jill Soloway More Quotes by Jill Soloway More Quotes From Jill Soloway The only way things will change will be when we're all wilder, louder, riskier, sillier, unexpectedly overflowing with surprise. Jill Soloway wilder surprise way Along the way, female filmmakers will have the feeling that they're not good enough. And that's really just a result of being "otherized" from the moment they're born. Keep an eye out for all those insecurities, and even expect them. Borrow white male privilege and just move through the world as if it was created for you. You have to kind of talk yourself into an imaginary space where the world is on your side and expects you to speak and wants you to speak. You have to create that space for yourself over and over again. Every hour sometimes. Jill Soloway your-side eye moving As you grow and change, you become possibly someone else. You want to go back to your family of origin and say, ‘Do you still love me? Would you still love me if I become X or Y or Z? When will you stop loving me? Is this unconditional love and if not what are the conditions?’ Jill Soloway do-you-still-love-me unconditional-love want By recognizing your own vulnerability you can recognize and identify with the vulnerability in others. Jill Soloway vulnerability recognizing You have to totally change the way that society's structured in order to being to heal. Jill Soloway heal order way I'm happy to always be included in the list of women. I'd like to be in the sections about female leaders and male leaders. Why not? Jill Soloway female leader It will feel boring when you're bingeing. Jill Soloway boring feels I still see storytelling for men by men that is always reinforcing the male gaze. Jill Soloway males storytelling men When I write, I lose time. I'm happy in a way that I have a hard time finding in real life. The intimacy between my brain and my fingers and my computer... Yet knowing that that intimacy will find an audience... It's very satisfying. It's like having the safety of being alone with the ego reward of being known. Jill Soloway hard-times real writing My experience as a Jewish American has often been as a spectator of one-sided conversations, or more like monologues, about Israel, Jewish History, Jewish identity, etc. Although there are profound divisions amongst Jews on all of these topics there are not many opportunities for deep and thoughtful dialogue about them. Jill Soloway thoughtful israel opportunity In my own work I am invested in art as a way to break through impasses, whether those impasses are personal, social, or political. Jill Soloway break-through political art I have never wanted to claim I know what is best for Israel. Jill Soloway israel claims wanted I haven't made art about Israel. There's a covert subtext of Jewish identity in my artwork. Jill Soloway jewish-identity israel art I did a piece where I was talking about torture at Abu Ghraib, and I embroidered my hand with the image of the hooded Abu Ghraib prisoners who'd been tortured using a needle and thread. I know that meeting a Holocaust survivor when I was eight and seeing the tattoo on her arm from her time in the camps influenced my piece about Abu Ghraib. Jill Soloway eight tattoo hands That was something that I learned from Alan Ball from “Six Feet Under." He didn”t really like to have too many pop culture references because they don”t really hold up after a few years. Jill Soloway feet culture years We stay away from pop culture almost all the time, you know. That's sort of a rule. You won't really hear people on our show talking about Beyoncé or Adele. We try to make it a little bit more timeless. Jill Soloway trying talking people There are a whole bunch of people - Republicans or sports fans or reality TV fans - who probably would never have recognized that they have trans people in their world. Caitlyn Jenner really is thinking about the movement and saving lives, so I know that her intentions are honorable. Jill Soloway sports reality thinking I think kids in general are much more capable of understanding the idea of being transgender than adults. Jill Soloway kids ideas thinking I've been told by people I respect that flashbacks only work if they have their own narrative, but they can't be part of the present narrative. Jill Soloway flashback narrative people We do want the freedom to move scenes from episode to episode to episode. And we do want the freedom to move writing from episode to episode to episode, because as it starts to come in and as you start to look at it as a five-hour movie just like you would in a two-hour movie, move a scene from the first 30 minutes to maybe 50 minutes in. In a streaming series, you would now be in a different episode. It's so complicated, and we're so still using the rules that were built for episodic television that we're really trying to figure it out. Jill Soloway writing two moving
