Power is just using energy in a wise way to get things done. Power has been misinterpreted to mean getting my way on the backs of other people. Getting whatever I want, forgetting that there are other beings and species and energies involved. Elizabeth Lesser More Quotes by Elizabeth Lesser More Quotes From Elizabeth Lesser We don't need anymore empowered people who are all about the ego. Elizabeth Lesser ego people needs I would say to women, always question what you're empowering yourself for and what are you claiming power for. Elizabeth Lesser empowering See what's happening to our sisters around the world. I'm very interested in the protection of women globally. Elizabeth Lesser around-the-world protection world I'm very committed to my family and my town. My biggest local commitment are my children, my husband, my home and my grandchildren. Elizabeth Lesser husband children commitment I'm very much a family person, and that's always my first priority. Elizabeth Lesser priorities persons firsts We don't need any more teachers. We don't. We need friends. Elizabeth Lesser friend-in-need teacher needs To be spiritual is to be genuine in everything you say and do, come what may. Elizabeth Lesser genuine spiritual may I hope this is the lesson we women really commit to memory - we learned that it doesn't work to try be someone other than who you really are. Elizabeth Lesser lessons trying memories Read any of the top-selling business books, all of them talk about moving away from a top down manner of leading to a more inclusive one. It's not happening over night, but if you read the winds of change in most of the democracies in the world we are moving toward shared levels of power. Elizabeth Lesser night book moving I have built up so much stuff , I am afraid I would cry forever, or have to go to sleep for weeks, or I would want to make some changes, and it is all just so overwhelming that we just keep going and going and going. It's a problem. It creates all kinds of illnesses of the physical and mental kind. Elizabeth Lesser want forever sleep I think the main problem people have getting older, whether they know it or not, is that you're closer to dying. And we may fixate on not wanting to look a certain way, but it really is just the clock ticking, that it means, "Oh, I am not immortal!". Elizabeth Lesser mean people thinking Life is about change, it never stops, it's moving and it's moving this human body inexorably towards its demise. Elizabeth Lesser demise body moving But grief is also a tonic. It is a healing elixir, made of tears that lubricate the heart. Elizabeth Lesser grief healing heart Instead of fixating on the physical aspects of aging, it's good to contemplate the deeper source of our anxiety. That can be liberating. Elizabeth Lesser aging anxiety source I love this life, because I am a human being and it sure would be nice, I think, to preserve it. But I don't even know if that's true, because God's mind is huge, and I don't really know what he's thinking.I can only do what I do with a spirit of humor, and faith and give the controls over to something else. Elizabeth Lesser nice giving thinking I can only do what I do with a spirit of humor, and faith and give the controls over to something else. Elizabeth Lesser i-can spirit giving I do think in general, women have a value system. And it's that value system that I think is feminism. Not "men are bad, women are good, let's get women empowered" - it's let's get this value system, which is about the capacity to feel and empathize with life, and therefore to protect it. Elizabeth Lesser feminism men thinking If men and women were equal, everybody would have the same values.Because at this point in time, many women feel compelled to care for the children, feel empathetically into another person's reality, more so than many men who often are on more of a straight-shooting path towards achievement come what may. Elizabeth Lesser men children reality I think the gender story will become less fraught with hard edges - and not that we'll have androgyny, but that men and women will move more fluidly into each other's domains. Elizabeth Lesser men moving thinking I think as women and men become more conscious, the terms "woman/man" begin to lose meaning. Elizabeth Lesser conscious men thinking