Replace "Have to" with "Want to." by Steve Pavlina

Replace "Have to" with "Want to."

Steve Pavlina

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Believing that you must do something perfectly is a recipe for stress, and you'll associate that stress with the task and thus condition yourself to avoid it

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Don't die without embracing the daring adventure your life is mea... by Steve Pavlina

Don't die without embracing the daring adventure your life is meant to be.

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One of the secrets to success is recognizing that motivation foll... by Steve Pavlina

One of the secrets to success is recognizing that motivation follows action.

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You can move beyond the ego's perspective and see reality from the perspective of a higher consciousness.

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If you don't make a conscious choice... someone else will decide for you. It may be your boss, a family member, an advertiser, a collective social influence, or someone or something else, but it won't be something of your deliberate choosing.

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Passion requires focused direction, and that direction must come from three other areas: your purpose, your talents, and your needs.

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Do what you love, but be damned sure it's profitable. If you do work you love, but it doesn't generate income, your business will fail. If you do work you hate, but it generates income, your health will fail... and your business along with it. If you can't do what you love and make it profitable, you've either got a hobby or a headache, not a sustainable business. Don't settle for anything less than passion and profit.

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Our beliefs act as lenses. These lenses can help us see things we can't otherwise see, but they can also block us from seeing parts of reality.

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To work effectively you need uninterrupted blocks of time in which you can complete meaningful work... I've found that a minimum of 90 minutes is ideal for a single block.

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Your environment will eat your goals and plans for breakfast. by Steve Pavlina

Your environment will eat your goals and plans for breakfast.

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"Stop asking "What should I do now?" That question only brings up what others expect of you. Free people don't have shoulds. They have choices."

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Saying no isn't easy, but it's a required skill if you wish to have any degree of focus in your life. If you say yes too often, you'll likely fall into the common trap of saying yes to the good while simultaneously saying no to the best.

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Realize that you earn income by providing value - not time - so find a way to provide your best value to others, and charge a fair price for it.

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Using passion as your only fuel will no more assure you of success than being in love will ensure a successful long-term relationship.

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I learned that accepting others and accepting myself are two sides of the same coin; you can't love and accept yourself without doing the same for others.

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Treat your business relationships like friendships (or potential friendships). Formality puts up walls, and walls don't foster good business relationships. No one is loyal to a wall... except the one in China.

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Any relationships that would reject you for being true to yourself are - by definition - abusive relationships. You'll be much better off when you let them go.

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We primarily grow as human beings by discovering new truths about... by Steve Pavlina

We primarily grow as human beings by discovering new truths about ourselves and our reality.

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Passion and purpose go hand in hand. When you discover your purpose, you will normally find it's something you're tremendously passionate about.

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Waiting for clarity is like being a sculptor staring at a piece of marble, waiting for the statue within to cast off the unneeded pieces. Do not wait for clarity to spontaneously materialize-gra b a chisel and get busy!

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