Rumor is rarely more interesting than fact, but it is always more readily available. Stephen L. Carter More Quotes by Stephen L. Carter More Quotes From Stephen L. Carter True love is not the helpless desire to possess the cherished object of one's fervent affection; true love is the disciplined generosity we require of ourselves for the sake of another when we would rather be selfish; that, at least, is how I have taught myself to love my wife. Stephen L. Carter generosity selfish love-is We live today in a world in which nobody believes choices should have consequences. But may I tell you the great secret that our culture seeks to deny? You cannot escape the consequences of your choices. Time runs in only one direction. Stephen L. Carter time running believe One sees a trend in our political and legal cultures toward treating religious beliefs as arbitrary and unimportant, a trend supported by a rhetoric that implies that there is something wrong with religious devotion. Stephen L. Carter political religious christian We often ask our citizens to split their public and private selves, telling them in effect that it is fine to be religious in private, but there is something askew when those private beliefs become the basis for public action. Stephen L. Carter religious self christian In our sensible zeal to keep religion from dominating our politics, we have created a political and legal culture that presses the religiously faithful to be other than themselves, to act publicly, and sometimes privately as well, as though their faith does not matter to them. Stephen L. Carter political religious christian You should never fall in love with your own press clippings, because it is very much the nature of the beast that the same journalists who build you up between Monday and Friday tear you down for weekend fun...My family's habit of living in the past seems to me pathological, even dangerous. If all greatness lies in the past, what is the point of the future? Stephen L. Carter friday falling-in-love monday There is much depressing evidence that the religious voice is required to stay out of the public square only when it is pressed in a conservative cause. Stephen L. Carter depressing religious christian I think of my novels as entertainments. Stephen L. Carter entertainment novel thinking We do not credit to the ideal of religious freedom when we talk as though religious belief is something of which public-spirited adults should be ashamed. Stephen L. Carter adults religious christian If people believe that they are marrying out of love and free choice rather than out of duty, they are more likely to decide, if love should die, that the free choice to join together is no more significant than the free choice to part, and to look for love elsewhere; those married out of duty expect less love to begin with, and what duty has brought together, duty may keep together. Stephen L. Carter choices believe people Rumors chase the dead like flies, and we follow them with our prim noses. None of us are gossips, but we love listening to those who are. Stephen L. Carter rumor gossip listening Lots of white people think black people are stupid. They are stupid themselves for thinking so, but regulation will not make them smarter. Stephen L. Carter stupid white thinking Love is a gift we deliver when we would rather not. Stephen L. Carter love-is Every conflict plagues the peace that follows it. Stephen L. Carter plague conflict Teasing out the way the world might look through another's eyes is what makes the creative process so fascinating and enjoyable. Stephen L. Carter eye creative writing Richard John Neuhaus, in his well-known book The Naked Public Square, tells us that in America, the public square has become openly hostile to religion. Stephen L. Carter religious christian book When you shoot someone who is fleeing, it's not self-defense. It's an execution. Stephen L. Carter fleeing defense self To be black and an intellectual in America is to live in a box. On the box is a label, not of my own choosing. Stephen L. Carter black intellectual america If you're fascinated by America, you'll be fascinated by family. Stephen L. Carter fascinated ifs america I think that black fiction authors have to work very hard to avoid being typed as seeking only a black audience. Stephen L. Carter black fiction thinking
