Self-obsessed person gets refreshed on seeing own face regularly, looks impressed on being praised by the people for his looks majorly, remains over-dressed usually, enjoys being caressed by liars or cheats mainly and seems being surrounded by many sycophants mostly and in the absence of any or all of these above things , s/he feels stressed, disheartened, demoralized, distressed and depressed,

Anuj Somany

A self-seeker is such a mentally sick creature who loves only own physical,external feature rather than internal nature and always likes to put every where own picture with almost everyone and everything including thoughts and scriptures on social media to get the praise merely for own face from others. Such person or netizen often ends up getting many support on own photo bearing post, but all from the people who have equally selfish or dubious character.

A talent shines bright till he remains away from the limelight, because under the spotlight the glare of bulb and tube light dims his light.

A wicked person likes to see often the crowd of people around oneself whereas a wise man usually shies away from the loud places and normally loves solitude.

An effective rule to not make fool of oneself with the deceptive, nice words of the people is to never support or share the thought that has got the picture of the writer or speaker on the poster with many supporters often seen hanging around him/her on the ground and especially when it bears an advice or the point of view that speaks with Yourself, Your and You.

An effective way to reduce own frustration is in direct proportion to the decrease in own expectation of an appreciation from others for the good work done and, more so, from the higher-ups in an organisation.

An effective way to stay away from being fooled is to never say anything either in favour or against any media news on which most people discuss or share publicly their views.

An effective way to stay often happy and in cordial relationship with many people specially stupids around is to never display own emotion to say them the hard truths or that really matters in life, but only and always that what they want to hear especially things foolish and/or remain selfish.

An intelligent or brilliant feels ebullient only upon receiving the reward or award from the hands of genuine master, whereas the stupid or sycophant feels buoyant even when getting it from the hands of servant.

Be careful of one who preaches others through social media post to be good but own actually promoting through it only someone’s goods.

Better than saying or sharing anything bullshit and garnering many false people's support on social media , is to just sit alone doing nothing.

Big picture thinking is nothing but seeing the real movie called Life

Bravery is to remain standing upright on his own toe before the wife and Slavery is to keep going down on own knees to bow before her in his life.

He who expects the respect from others for himself could neither get along well with any woman especially his wife nor can stay for a long period in a job of any organization in his life.

If a person’s life objective has been endorsed by his inner call, then he is bound to repeatedly fail and fall for he is scaling up the wall which is very tall and that’s not an easy job for anyone at all.

If need is the mother of all inventions, then curiosity is its genetic father undoubtedly.

It does not surprise even a bit seeing an employee who is mentally strong to apply his wit & wisdom spends less tenure in a workplace & is often regarded as not culturally fit in a private organisation.

It is always difficult for an emotional person to choose an option between the job and the business because a job essentially requires slavery capacity to rise up and a business basically needs knavery capability to scale up.

Job interview is basically a process in which if an interviewee gives all answers honestly to the interviewers, then it is highly likely that they will reject him but not before grilling him with all sort of absurd questions; but when he pleases them with the reasons that they deem it right even if not correct, surprisingly they often select him instantly.

Life gets oft tougher to a person who grows wiser and it becomes often easier for those people who remain duffer.

Mainstream news media puts more words in the public's mouth than any knowledge in their mind.