The full life is filled with vulnerability, not defense. You face whatever feeling there is. Virginia Satir More Quotes by Virginia Satir More Quotes From Virginia Satir You have all played a significant part in my development of loving. As a result, my life has been rich and full, so I leave feeling very grateful. Virginia Satir gratefuldevelopmentfeelings I know people can change-right down to my bones, through every cell, in every fiber of my body-I now that people can change. It is just a question of when and in what context. Virginia Satir cellschangepeople It's sad that children cannot know their parents when they were younger; when they were loving, courting, and being nice to one another. By the time children are old enough to observe, the romance has all too often faded or gone underground. Virginia Satir parentingnicechildren The recommended daily requirement for hugs is: four per day for survival, eight per day for maintenance, and twelve per day for growth. Virginia Satir hugeightsurvival Put together all the existing families and you have society. It is as simple as that. Whatever kind of training took place in the individual family will be reflected in the kind of society that these families create. Virginia Satir trainingsimpletogether I give life to that which I notice. What I don't notice dies. Virginia Satir diesgiving I am me and I am okay. Virginia Satir recoveryokay Negotiating the adolescent stage is neither quick nor easy. . . . I have often said to parents, "If it isn't illegal, immoral, orfattening, give it your blessing." We do much better . . . if we find and support all the places we can appropriately say yes, and say only the no's that really matter. Virginia Satir supportblessinggiving Families and societies are small and large versions of one another. Both are made up of people who have to work together, whose destinies are tied up with one another. Each features the components of a relationship: leaders perform roles relative to the led, the young to the old, and male to female; and each is involved with the process of decision-making, use of authority, and the seeking of common goals. Virginia Satir destinygoalpeople Why Family Therapy...because it deals with family pain. Virginia Satir therapydealspain You have learned what you have learned very well. It has helped you survive. Virginia Satir wells A growing body of clinical observation has pointed to the conclusion that the family therapy must be oriented to the family as a whole. Virginia Satir observationgrowingbody No one's fingerprints are exactly the same as anyone else's. Virginia Satir being-uniquefingerprintsunique So much is asked of parents, and so little is given. Virginia Satir givenparentlittles My dream is to make families a place where adults with high self esteem can develop. I think we have reached a point where if we don't get busy on dreams of this sort, our end is in sight. We need a world that is as good for human beings as it is for technology. Virginia Satir technologyself-esteemdream Negotiating the adolescent stage is neither quick nor easy. Virginia Satir adolescencestageeasy Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible--the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nuturing family. Virginia Satir
