The heart of the matter is that there is nothing the matter with our hearts. It is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire. Gay Hendricks More Quotes by Gay Hendricks More Quotes From Gay Hendricks You never know when it is going to happen, when you will experience a moment that dramatically transforms your life. When you look back, often years later, you may see how a brief conversation or an insight you read somewhere, changed the entire course of your life. Gay Hendricks positiveinspirationallife Genuine love is between two people who know they are already complete. Genuine love is based on a new paradigm in which both partners are committed to the celebration of each other and their loved ones. Gay Hendricks genuine-lovelove-istwo As we free our breath through diaphragmatic breathing, we relax our emotions and let go our body tensions. Gay Hendricks breathinghealthletting-go If you want to create vital, long-lasting love, you must become a master of verbal & nonverbal appreciation Gay Hendricks love-youappreciationlong The highest goal of spirituality is Self-realization, but what does that mean? It means to feel your Self as a living reality in this moment, and there is always only this moment. (10) Gay Hendricks selfmeanreality There's no such thing as a minor lapse of awareness. You're either present with what is--right here, right now--or you're someplace else. Gay Hendricks lapsesminorsawareness Arguments are often like melodramas - they have a predictable beginning, middle, and end. Gay Hendricks argumentbeginning-middle-and-endends The only relevant question is whether you will let it be possible for you. Gay Hendricks relevant The main reason intuition is so important is this: It is a clear sign that you are connecting with your inner spiritual guidance system. Intuition is a direct signal from your deepest self that you are navigating from your true center. Gay Hendricks intuitionselfspiritual Nobody knows but you what it is that’s sacred to you as far as what you want to manifest in your life. You need to do it by your own chosen standards. Your life does not need to look like anybody else’s life. It’s a commitment that you’re making to a magnificent life measured by your own chosen standards. Gay Hendricks doecommitmentneeds Welcome the back talk, because it's completely natural and normal. It's actually a sign that the new idea you've planted in your mind is taking root. Gay Hendricks growthrootsideas One of the first things a relationship therapist learns is that couples argue to burn up energy that could be used for something else. In fact, arguments often serve the purpose of using up energy, so that the couple does not have to take the courageous, creative leap into an unknown they fear. Arguing serves the function of being a zone of familiarity into which you can retreat when you are afraid of making a creative breakthrough. Gay Hendricks marriagecouplecreative Are you willing to take the Big Leap to your ultimate level of success in love, money, and creative contribution? Gay Hendricks levelsbigscreative Our species in general had grown accustomed to pain and adversity through millennia of struggle . . . we were only recently evolving the ability to let ourselves feel good and have things go well for any significant period of time. Gay Hendricks painstruggleinspirational It's been said a thousand ways by hundreds of different people through the years, but is still as true as ever. If mamma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. Yellow H. Gay Hendricks funny-relationshipcoupleyears The best attitude to take toward back talk is to reach out and embrace it with love, compassion, and understanding. No need to criticize it for its shortcomings or to waste time in recriminations. Just give a loving nod and a hug to any back talk you get, and move on to the joyful creation of your fulfilled life. Gay Hendricks loving-lifeattitudemoving
