The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority. Kenneth Hartley Blanchard More Quotes by Kenneth Hartley Blanchard More Quotes From Kenneth Hartley Blanchard Marriage is like signing a 356-page contract without knowing what's in it. Kenneth Hartley Blanchard Spouses often point out each other's deficiencies. Instead, we should be each other's motivator. My husband touches my spirit, and I try my best to motivate him, too. Kenneth Hartley Blanchard