The number one thing in my opinion parents can do is be the way you would like your child to be. Don't tell them one thing and do something different. Be congruent with what you would like them to be by showing them how to be that way. John Assaraf More Quotes by John Assaraf More Quotes From John Assaraf We don't have that for the most part it is learned behavior and so the first part is we have to understand why people are behaving the way they are. Behavior is a result so we have to understand that before there is a result something is going on in here in the brain. John Assaraf brain people firsts If you think about a child that is born and how it's born, if it has racism in his genes, every child that is raised up to hit or beat someone up with anger and resentments. John Assaraf racism children thinking To having no self esteem to feeling wonderful about yourself doing what you love to do and making the money that you want to be making. That is my contribution to humanity. John Assaraf doing-what-you-love self-esteem feelings I have never had a secret hero in my mind but I have kept a lot of mentors in my mind that are heroes. Gandhi, Jesus, Moses, Martin Luther King they were all secret heroes in my mind because they stood for what they wanted, what they believed in. John Assaraf kings hero jesus I am a genius, I am brilliant, I am outstanding and I can achieve whatever I choose to achieve with a ... given by my Creator." That is how I am helping people. John Assaraf brilliant genius people I am helping people maybe scrape off some of the old stuff that has been put upon us that has taken us from being genius's to not feeling great about ourselves by having doubts, fears and anxieties. John Assaraf anxiety taken people I don't know if humor has a place for it but being light hearted does and not to take it too seriously. John Assaraf hearted light doe There is a Greek word that is called "Praxis" and that means the integration of your beliefs with your behavior. John Assaraf greek belief mean There are a lot of people who pretend to have moral ethics and they talk from both sides of their mouth. John Assaraf mouths sides people Your life can not be all about stuff that you love or even like. Your life is going to be about ups and downs and that is just part of the journey. John Assaraf journey life-is stuff What happens is when you start to believe it in here your brain starts to believe it out here in our physical world so you have to understand it is a reverse of what we have been taught. "When I see it I will believe it". John Assaraf brain believe world I totally believe that I everything I choose, everything I set my dreams out to achieve I will achieve. John Assaraf achieve dream believe When we pray with our hearts and our souls I think we are being heard. John Assaraf soul heart thinking We can help educate the individuals who are doing the things they shouldn't be doing in my opinion by understanding that there is a way to achieve their goals and desires whether it's communication skills so they stop hitting and using their anger as oppose to their intelligence. John Assaraf communication skills goal What I do is really helping people in maximizing their income and to live the lives they want to live. I effect they're families, I effect their beliefs about themselves and it gives me so much joy John Assaraf joy giving people Sometimes we forget that the top of the wave, the top of the crest is always the bottom, there is no inside without an outside, and there is no up without a down. John Assaraf wave forget sometimes We go through these metamorphous just like a caterpillar does before becoming a butterfly and the middle of that metamorphosis it always feels uncomfortable. John Assaraf butterfly becoming doe Don't look at prayer as me asking God to give me something, like some type of cosmic bell captain, look at prayer as my communication with the quantum intelligence, the divine intelligence that we have out there and that is how things are manifested. John Assaraf communication prayer giving Children have a ton of mirror neurons when they are babies and kids and they mimic what they see and so heroes are important because we are watching these heroes make a difference in these peoples lives and sacrificing their lives in some cases and I think it is really important to know that it is not just about us but about the community. John Assaraf hero baby children What I think is critically important is that there are lots of studies on how prayer effects people that are ill, lots of studies, and I know in my life my prayers have been answered. John Assaraf prayer people thinking