The turning point is that moment of naked acceptance of the truth. Ellyn Stern More Quotes by Ellyn Stern More Quotes From Ellyn Stern My expectations-which I extended whenever I came close to accomplishing my goals-made it impossible ever to feel satisfied with my success. Ellyn Stern goal expectations impossible Guilt is tricky because we confuse it with caring. ... It's the next best thing to being there. Ellyn Stern next guilt caring