There are those among us that are driven by what others think. There are those among us that are so consumed with self that others only exist to serve. Then we have those that know not self at all. Most of us are a combination of the three groups without being totally anyone of them. Being self-aware enables us to monitor our health and choose paths that are right for us. I do not have a memory of caring for self above others. Being aware of the needs of others has been beneficial. It has been stated that it be a good thing to ..."Know Thyself." When we accept our uniqueness and our abilities and stuff we just are not able to do, our self is on a better, more productive course.

Carl DeHaven

Just A Thought Thinking in the present requires choice to do so. To be here now is more than a momentary thing. It's a way of life. It is true that the choices we make determine our lives. Regardless of what others think, do, say we have the ability to handle our reactions to that which occurs to us. It's one of our abilities that when exercised will aid efforts to live a more enhanced life. We all have an inherent aspect that when realized enables us to live as chosen. Potential is like fuel in the tank. We all have a "tank of potential" that awaits turning of a key. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

An aspect of our uniqueness is the view we have of ourselves. Nobody exists with the same idea we have of ourselves. With our first breath we begin developing our attitudes toward life. When we mature, at whatever age, we are simply a combination and accumulation of all that has occurred up to now. It seem as though we are taught our feelings towards just about everything...as those who instruct us have been... and those that instructed them...and so forth. What might be important could be other than what others think. One of our abilities, as human, is that of choice. We can choose how we feel towards stuff based on our personal experience. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Challenge There is none among us that doesn't haven something to deal with. The hindrance can be as minor as a hangnail or as major as a stroke. Having a situation that needs to be overcome can be a challenge. Having a test that needs to be passed can be a challenge . Having a family situations that needs to be resolved can be a challenge. Our lives at times feel to be a series of challenges. One after another and at times a lot simultaneously. In every case it's our attitude that determines how we see it. To choose a good attitude be a good thing. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Drawn To When we rest back and view the people in our lives...Those we've just met and those we've known awhile it becomes apparent that a similarity exists. It seems that as we grow thru life the names, faces, bodies change but inner substance continues. Could be that the choices we make determine whose in our lives. What we attract seems to be brought unto us via waves of thought then into physical manifestation. Adjusting our magnet could be a good thing to do. Choosing to do so gives aid to do so. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

In Da' Beginning To most of us...Infinity is a thing ahead of us. In reality it's both ahead and behind us. Some suggest that "in the beginning there was God". Others tell us a "big Bang" occurred. Some say an understanding of a beginning is not possible. Our calendar started on A.D. and we mark time bother before and after that day. Beginnings have endings. Could be there's no beginnings or endings. One of the aspects of existence is that of "continuance". Motive determines whether what we begin with be beneficial or not. Could be best to think a bit before we......begin. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

It appears that asking is not always a pleasant thing. Could be an aspect of human nature to feel awkward when asking others. To say "Please" we give others the option of assisting us or not. The manner in which we feel about what we ask relates to our feelings about asking. Passion is an element of our saying..."Please...so is the motive. We all ask of others. Why we ask depends mostly on present conditions...those change. I ask others to think a bit before going on some tangent. Doing so could be beneficial to all of us...Please? KnowyerLoved CWD

Carl DeHaven

Just A Thought Thinking in the present requires choice to do so. To be here now is more than a momentary thing...it's a way of life. It is true that the choices we make determine our lives. Regardless of what others think, do, say, we have the ability to handle our reaction to that which occurs about us. It's one of our abilities that when exercised will aid efforts to live a more enhanced life. We all have an inherent aspect that when realized enables us to live as chosen. Potential is like fuel in da' tank...we all have a "tank of potential" that awaits a turning of key. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Knowing Self Being that it's been provn time and time again that it's best to just b oursebves why do some of us strive to be other? At around 7 my mother bought Johnny nd me a sardboard spaceship. I dreamt of space travel. Not long after I awadened to the fact that wasn't my callng. Yes, it's a good thing to come to terms with ourseves and think and act on what is our own selves. As it's true that the more better we each get the more better we all get. Isn't time to b ourselves joining along with other selves towards the gooder for all? This soul hope's so... KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Living in Abundance When we view the world as a whole it becomes apparent that there are pockets of wealth and vastness of not so much. Extremes exist in having and not. The majority of us exist in the central range of life's pendulum. There are those among us that feel their sum of stuff equals the value of themselves. Research has shone that should the abundance of the world be spread liken icing on a cake, there would be a whole bunch less hunger and pain. Some among us see our basic needs of food, clothing, shelter as a given...while others long for just that. Could be a good thing to share.... Know yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Look We only "see" that which reflects light. How much more is there? There are those among us that when sitting in a dark room think that nothing exists that is not seen. Our ability to see is much more than what's shone through our eyes. I "see" that Judy Jones is pissed at me even though her outward appearance remains lovely. About all of us there exist more effecting us that is unseen than is seen. What we "see" in our dreams is seen through our "inner" eyes. It might be beneficial to look more carefully upon our inner sphere of being. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Not Ready Throughout our lives we continue to progress as we are able. Some of s move more rapidly than others, and dat's O'tay. Being that we are each unique, we therefore travel on our, hopefully chosen, ourselves. We are sometimes shone aspects of life that we unable to understand through whatever reason. We also have come into our life's events, occurrences, people that appear at just the correct time. Being ready to receive the pitch, the catcher prepares to catch. It might be good to do the same. Getting ready is a step towards receiving. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Our Own Worlds Each grain of sand is it's own entity. We re taught hat every grain, every snowflake, every flower, along with every other "thing" is a unique thing. Across the globe there are unique individuals that when combined comprise the human race. Even with our acceptance of our uniqueness, we at time envy others. Hopefully that passes and we return to being at peace with how we are. Living in individual "worlds" we continue to progress along our paths while combining to bring about the whole. Know that this is O'tay being your chosen self. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Outside Input Our entire lives are simply a process of experiencing the stimulus presented... The degree to which we allow stuff to affect us is mostly an inherent response. Truly...crap happens no matter how directed our lives may be. Fortunately we, as us, have kinda developed to a level that most of us be conscious. When we exercise our ability to choose our reactions to that which occurs about us, regardless of what others response be, we grow more able to avoid stupid stuff. What occurs outside of us can, but not always, have an effect on what be happening inside us. It could be good to strengthen our ability to choose our responses. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Outta Da' Blue We all have experiences that are sudden occurrences. When the..."Where'd that come from" question arises, we ask others for input but sooner or later we should answer it ourselves. Being "blind sided" is being caught of guard. That's not always a not so good event. I was " blindsided" by Judy's presence. That was a good thing. When we choose to be of aware mind and flexible to changes, we are more enabled to handle... Da' outta da' blues as they surely occur. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Questions With our first breath we begin to wonder. It could be that our first wonderment was..."Where's Mama's tit?" What our last wondering thought be..an instant of our last breath..is answered within. For some of us our questions ask why we are the way we are. Our uniqueness prohibits answer to be other than our own. We may act similar in similar situations but why we do so is different. Any answer we get from outside ourselves comes from what others think. Some of our questions have answers we are not ready to understand. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Three Little Words In our lives there often are times that can be summed up briefly. Many lengthy discussions could be narrowed down to a few words. It could be good to be short and to the point...at times. We all come across those that give explanations, followed by a story of why this or that occurred. They need to justify their actions...and go on and on. Turmoil between people is mostly lengthy, repeated words stated louder and louder. Several 3 word statements; chosen to suit the situation are available..."wanta get away", "I don't care", "wanta stay", "I am listening", "wanta kiss", "I love you", "want forgiveness", I am sorry". Three words can go a long way. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

Throughout our lives we miss opportunities to experience wonderful occurrences. It seems as though the excuse has to be lack of time. But we have choice as to our time is spent.

Carl DeHaven

Truth of Existence I'm getting pretty tired of you humans pissing around wit' da bickering t'ween ya's. I have given all of ya what c'ha need to fulfill yer purpose. Think this is a game? It ain't! Don't you humans have any idea? What I see is the masses have for eons let themselves be lead about hither and yon by a minority gang that is totally self serving! I'm not gonna wait much longer for ya'll to get yer s..t together. You won't like how I'll bring ya's up to grade. KnowyerLoved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

We all have the ability to adjust our course towards a more better direction. Choosing to do so is less painful than being forced to. Moving toward a destination that is beneficial to ourselves and others could be worth the effort. Know Yer Loved, CWD

Carl DeHaven

We seem to do our best work when a bit of passion is involve. It might be true that we can choose our feelings toward anything or one. Choosing passion could be a good choice.

Carl DeHaven