To give, and not demand that others receive . . . that is the crossover point to maturity. . . Richard Rohr More Quotes by Richard Rohr More Quotes From Richard Rohr All great spirituality is about what we do with our pain. If we do not transform our pain, we will transmit it to those around us. Richard Rohr spirituality emotional pain All great spirituality teaches about letting go of what you don’t need and who you are not. Then, when you can get little enough and naked enough and poor enough, you’ll find that the little place where you really are is ironically more than enough and is all that you need. At that place, you will have nothing to prove to anybody and nothing to protect. That place is called freedom. It’s the freedom of the children of God. Such people can connect with everybody. They don’t feel the need to eliminate anybody . . . Richard Rohr letting-go children people If love is the soul of Christian existence, it must be at the heart of every other Christian virtue. Thus, for example, justice without love is legalism; faith without love is ideology; hope without love is self-centeredness; forgiveness without love is self-abasement; fortitude without love is recklessness; generosity without love is extravagance; care without love is mere duty; fidelity without love is servitude. Every virtue is an expression of love. No virtue is really a virtue unless it is permeated, or informed, by love. Richard Rohr christian heart love Christianity is a lifestyle - a way of being in the world that is simple, non-violent, shared, and loving. However, we made it into an established "religion" (and all that goes with that) and avoided the lifestyle change itself. One could be warlike, greedy, racist, selfish, and vain in most of Christian history, and still believe that Jesus is one's "personal Lord and Savior" . . . The world has no time for such silliness anymore. The suffering on Earth is too great. Richard Rohr selfish christian jesus Prayer is sitting in the silence until it silences us, choosing gratitude until we are grateful, and praising God until we ourselves are an act of praise. Richard Rohr gratitude grateful prayer There are three things we have to let go of. The first is the compulsion to be successful. Second, is the compulsion to be right-especially theologically right. (That's merely an ego trip, and because of this "need" churches split in half, with both parties prisoners of their own egos.) Finally, there is the compulsion to be powerful, to have everything under control. Richard Rohr party powerful letting-go We do not think ourselves into new ways of living, we live ourselves into new ways of thinking. Richard Rohr way-of-thinking way thinking Most of us were taught that God would love us if and when we change. In fact, God loves you so that you can change. What empowers change, what makes you desirous of change is the experience of love. It is that inherent experience of love that becomes the engine of change. Richard Rohr ifs-and empowering love-you Christians are usually sincere and well-intentioned people until you get to any real issues of ego, control power, money, pleasure, and security. Then they tend to be pretty much like everybody else. We often given a bogus version of the Gospel, some fast-food religion, without any deep transformation of the self; and the result has been the spiritual disaster of "Christian" countries that tend to be as consumer-oriented, proud, warlike, racist, class conscious, and addictive as everybody else-and often more so, I'm afraid. Richard Rohr spiritual christian country The journey to happiness involves finding the courage to go down into ourselves and take responsibility for what's there: all of it. Richard Rohr responsibility journey happiness The simplest spiritual discipline is some degree of solitude and silence. But it's the hardest, because none of us want to be with someone we don't love. Besides that, we invariably feel bored with ourselves, and all of our loneliness comes to the surface.We won't have the courage to go into that terrifying place without Love to protect us and lead us, without the light and love of God overriding our own self-doubt. Such silence is the most spacious and empowering technique in the world, yet it's not a technique at all. It's precisely the refusal of all technique. Richard Rohr loneliness spiritual love Prayer is not about changing God, but being willing to let God change us. Richard Rohr willing prayer letting-go Religion is one of the safest places to hide from God. Richard Rohr Heartbreaks, disappointments and even our own weaknesses can serve as stepping-stones to the second half of life transformation. Failings are the foundation for growth. Those who have fallen, failed or 'gone down' are the only ones who understand 'up.' Richard Rohr growth disappointment inspiring The cross is the standing statement of what we do to one another and to ourselves. The resurrection is the standing statement of what God does to us in return. Richard Rohr resurrection return doe It is at the bottom where we find grace; for like water, grace seeks the lowest place and there it pools up. Richard Rohr pool grace water Maturity is the ability to joyfully live in an imperfect world. Richard Rohr a-perfect-world imperfect-world maturity There is a part of you that is Love itself, and that is what we must fall into. It is already there. Once you move your identity to that level of deep inner contentment, you will realize you are drawing upon a Life that is much larger than your own and from a deeper abundance. Richard Rohr drawing fall moving God comes to us disguised as our life. Richard Rohr our-lives Once you experience being loved when you are unworthy, being forgiven when you did something wrong, that moves you into non-dual thinking. You move from what I call meritocracy, quid pro quo thinking, to the huge ocean of grace, where you stop counting or calculating. Richard Rohr ocean moving thinking
