Transformation without work and pain, without suffering, without a sense of loss is just an illusion of true change. William P. Young More Quotes by William P. Young More Quotes From William P. Young Does that mean," asked Mack, "that all roads will lead to you?" "Not at all," smiled Jesus..."Most roads don't lead anywhere. What it does mean is that I will travel any road to find you. William P. Young doe mean jesus Did I hear God call me an idiot? William P. Young idiot call-me But, enough of that for now. Let’s get lost again in the starry night. William P. Young enough lost night Each relationship between two persons is absolutely unique. That is why you cannot love two people the same. It simply is not possible. You love each person differently because of who they are and the uniqueness that they draw out of you. William P. Young unique love two You cannot produce trust just like you cannot 'do' humility. It either is or is not. William P. Young shack like-you humility All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It's not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda. William P. Young relationship jobs people Anger is the right response to something that is so wrong. But don't let the anger and pain and loss you feel prevent you from forgiving him and removing your hands from around his neck. William P. Young pain loss hands "Pain has a way of clipping our wings and keeping us from being able to fly"... "And if left unresolved you can almost forget that you were ever created to fly in the first place." William P. Young able pain wings Through . . . lies you try to run your life and manipulate others. . . . Lies become an inhibitor in your relationship . . . . William P. Young running trying lying I am especially fond of you. William P. Young Even though you can't finally grasp me, guess what? I still want to be known. William P. Young known stills want True love never forces. William P. Young force It is not the nature of love to force a relationship, but it is the nature of love to open the way. William P. Young shack force way In some sense every parent does love their children. But some parents are too broken to love them well& others are barely able to love them at all. William P. Young parent broken children Lies are a little fortress; inside them you can feel safe & powerful. William P. Young powerful safe lying If you and I are friends, there is an expectancy that exists within our relationship. When we see each other or are apart, there is an expectancy of being together, of laughing and talking. The expectancy has no concrete definition; it is alive and dynamic and everything that emerges from our being together is a unique gift shared by no one else. William P. Young unique talking laughing I give you an ability to respond and your response is to be free to love and serve in every situation, and therefore each moment is different and unique and wonderful. William P. Young different unique giving Sometimes honesty can be incredibly messy William P. Young shack honesty sometimes Mackenzie, you cannot produce trust, just as you cannot 'do' humility. It either is or is not. Trust is the fruit of a relationship in which you know you are loved. Because you do not know that I love you, you cannot trust me. William P. Young fruit humility love-you Paradigms power perceptions, perceptions power emotions. William P. Young paradigm emotion perception